Followng on from my thread about my girlfriend wanting us to just be best friends like
we was before the relationship ( relationship for 7 months ) i talked to her and said
if you think we cant be mature and get over arguments we should really and ideally end it
she replied after a few messages saying that the relationship would be perfect in a few years
but she doesnt feel right and if she wanted it to work she would have instantly said rather than
thinking about it as to weather we should work out or not.

My question now as as we've officially broken up is that i obviously love her and i want her back
but im not going to go AFC and beg for her back. We have the same friendship circle (same
SPAM group) and we were best friends before. How shall i behave with her, shall i go back
to being bestfriends with her or shall i completely cut her out. The dilemma is that being
best friends with her will mean we end on good terms and there might be a chance in
the future however it will hurt me to see/hear her with another guy. Being cold with her
might come across afc like i am really affected my life has crashed however she might
feel that shes lost somthing big and return.


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