I've never had a woman say this to me before but this new woman I am seeing says that I'm not intimate enough for her and don't turn her on. Getting a ton of LMR. Basically we'll be on couch or in bed at the end of night and I'll start to kiss her. She kisses back. I start to let my hands wander and she stops me every time.

She says when I kiss her it's not soft and intimate and it's more like attacking. When I try to talk about it she doesn't want to and just says that it should flow naturally and things should just happen.

FYI I have NEVER had this problem with anyone else before. I am very confused and really don't want to lose this girl over this as I really care for her. Should I be trying massages etc?

Thanks