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Girlfriend: Fun, adorable, hardworking with a happy go lucky attitude. She works three jobs that combine to about 40 hours a week so she's always moving around. Likes to spend her non work time about 65-35 mostly going out and the other just watching tv surfing the web. Life with this girl is constant party theres never any shortage of fun things to do with my nights typically ending feeling very satisfied with life. Its been 5 years and I had plans to wife her up one day if it all continued.

Situation: I got a new job a couple months ago thats more mentally taxing than previous ones. As a result I've taken liberty to take more downtime not alone time just needed more time to just chill at home here and there. We got into a huge fight last weekend she said she felt like I didnt want to have fun anymore. I made it clear that I obviously did and she was blowing it out of proportion that she cant blame me for not going out with her on certain nights if she didnt invite me in the first place.

The Problem: I broke frame and this caused her to ask for a week break. I know that often breaks are pre-cursors to breaking up that just make it easier for weak people. However, I want this to work. Even if she doesnt want it to right now. I see a bright enough future that I want it to work.

Efforts: I did me all week, never contacted her once, didnt respond to her texts and made sure to have a fucking blast all week. Made sure my female friends posted pictures of all us having a good time. Made sure that she heard all about my awesome week having fun without her as she was texting me "I dont want you to hate me" and "i miss you so much". Never once responded until today. She asked if we could meet today that she needed to talk with me but I said I'm busy today and we rescheduled for tommorow.

My Question: If on the off chance she breaks up with me what is the best possible way for me to act to reverse her feelings? I understand that I cant make her at the flip of a switch want me back right then and there. But what would be the best way to handle it?

My Plan as of now: My plan is to essentially just play it up that I'm really happy about it but make it clear that we are done completely if shes really going to break up with me after 5 years. Additionally, I'm not going to ask questions, beg, plead, or reason with her at all. I'm going to take it in stride which is what I would do regardless if we end up broken up.

Any tips, advice, or ideas would mean a lot thanks guys!

If after 5 years, 2 months of chilling at home sends her running, then odds are she was on her way out. Also, I don't understand how you could party for a week when you weren't for the 2 months you were with her. You sound pretty nonchalant so I'm guessing she is too. This doesn't sound like a 5 year rs and it may just be time for it to be over. I dunno, I'm confused here.

Hey man thanks for the reply. Ill give you more details it is in fact a five year rs. During the time ive had this job ive gone from going out about 3-4 times a week to about anywhere from 1-3 times a week. I dont know what shes thinking but it was bad enough of a fight that i am spooked. As for anything else going on prior it was great at least for me. She never told me she was feeling that way till the argument. As for how i partied all week its because im healthy, im fit, and I have experience doing it on top of the fact that I didnt want to be home thinking about it. I dont know if im nonchalant i guess im just confidant about my path. The reason i posted here was just wondering from the members of this community. What is the absolute best way you can handle a breakup when it happens to make her feel like shes making a mistake? It may not even be possible idk. Im just wondering what the people here think.

You ignored her for a week, dumb move. This isn't a girl you're trying to game, its your GF and she likely saw right through the tactic or feels you simply don't care. Looks like now she's the one in control as you're freaking out about her leaving.