| Hi Guys
Firstly I want to thank you for any feedback you can give. This is a bit long so my apologies
Been with my girlfriend for a year and a half, and things were great, then things went sour then great again. We were planning on marrying etc…
2 Months ago is when things went bad. Went on a business trip for 3 days, just before my trip she bought me a ring. When I got back She saw me and was really in love it was noticeable to the point where she even told me her heart was beating like crazy until I saw you.
A week after I got back things went bad and most things I tried did not seem to work, and if somebody else took my attention away she would be warm again. bought her gifts, took her away etc.. (and it made things worse). Thought she might be screwing around, but tested, by being around when I shouldn’t, which pleased her.
Took her away for the weekend and we had a good time but not great, we went to dinner she said to me “if god had come to me to build the perfect man I would have chosen you” We went to a club and she was trying to make me jealous so I just got attention from other women and she wanted everyone to know I was with her. At the end of the night she provoked me and I lost my cool.
The next day I left and her initial response was I don’t believe in separation we should just break up. I said fine started packing my bags. She then said Wait we need to talk.
(The problem was I used this threat before and backed down)
She was in shock and could not believe it. Went from angry to loving, she told me if you need this for me to realise Im in love you. Trust me this is more than enough. You don’t need to do this. Ive thought about this moment in the past and something in theory and in real life its very different
She started asking me Is there someone else.
What about our plans, what about our future, children etc…
Will you leave the country
She also said how can you be so cool about this, like this is so simple
After a day she convinced me to come back. And since then these 2 months have literally been up and down.
Her best friend is very jealous of our relationship and has put ideas in her head that really started the all this. I was not aware of this before.
When I realised this last week, when I got home I said pack our shit we are leaving. I am not staying in this place anymore with your friend next door. She agreed, we left
We met for lunch a few days back and her attitude was shit. I asked her whats wrong nothing just my personal things.
I said to her I am really fed up of your games and walked off. After that I stopped her from doing anything for me. (Which was one of things she kept throwing in my face - I am so good to you I do this for you I do that for you etc...). Which really shook her up.
Now 2 days ago we had a chat – She said I really want things to back to the way they were bla bla bla, but she will not take any responsibility for what happened over this time. She just said that she was reacting to my behavior (basically failing shit tests)
Since then I have seen a 360 degree change and she seems completely in love, showing my picture to everyone, being really proud about being with me. Talking about weddings and kids etc...
Now guys any feedback would be much appreciated as to your insights
Thanks again
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