Hi, my name is TheAV, i meet a girl 4-5months ago, she was a real challenge for me,at first day when we meet, she told me already bought the airplain ticket to go home to Spain, becouse shes spanish, and stay there for rest of her life. Usualy i don't mind cuz never had problems with approaching or dating girls, but shes like a magnet for me, i saw so many new things in her what i never saw in girlfriends, developed so much on my personality since i'm with her,when she saw our relationship geting cold, was fighting for it,etc. But 2 months ago started to happen something. Losing the magic what keep us together. I changed job, had less time o meet her, she start her work when in geting out of job, and 2week ago told me shes bored of our relationship, wel i dont have yet own room to ofer that endless disturbless space,etc, and now geting more worst all by not talking only 2-3text daily,but dont whant to seem desperate by asking every day why not talk? When we talk have nothing new to say. I think here is the end of relationship, but i love her, or i was feeling too much for her to just quit all, i talked with her to restart it and try make it interesting with more passion, but shes not giving me even time to talk,than how to show passion. Plenty of times i wishing to can make the best decision cuz this was just kills my soul. Anyone can say opinion? or what you would do in my role. (sry for my English, i still learning it) Thank you

ey man,

I skimmed through this whole thing, but if you want to give me a shorter concise version reach out to me in my inbox and i'll be able to tailor something a little more directly at you.

Anyway..

I give this advice to another member recently and judging from what I've skimmed through you maybe able to grab a jewel or two from it.

"There is no concrete evidence to back what I am about to say. Its more of a metaphysical thing, but what I've experienced and what many people I've known have experienced is women can always hold out for a moment longer than the point where it seems almost unbearable for men. By unbearable I mean.. At the point where you are feeling like " Fuck this shit.. I'm going to just call/text/ her". When its so strong is the point at which she is thinking about contacting you the most.

Energy always follows thought.

Now let me say; if you reach out to contact her at this point, you will be putting off an opportunity for you to learn the power of letting the woman go. And this is a lesson all men must learn before they can become truly successful with women. You only learn this lesson by letting go out of choice, not necessity.

Men tend to thank they've let women go after they texted her 10 times, called her 3 and she ignore them. Thats not letting the woman go. Thats called picking the only option you have left. You let go out of necessity, not choice. So you don't acquire the stronger sense of presence/aura that attracts women that a man acquires from letting go of women he still has a chance with. You don't grow - you don't learn. You stay on your current level.

I could go on and on about this, but the moral of the passage is; if you're interested in growing in the long run, I would leave this one alone. She may reach out - she may not, but what you will acquire will be much more beneficial than any one relationship ever could be.

Now if that isn't your interest and you feel both comfortable and content with where you are on your journey. Call her don't text. Call her up and let her know that you'd still like to continue to see her. Be cool and be calm; like you've been busy in life lately, but you've accomplished a few things and you now have time to date again. A woman is always responsive to that kind of energy.

With all due love in respect,

Peace bro."

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