Gentlemen, I require your wisdom.

I hooked up with my HB8 girlfriend a few months ago. It's probably my best relationship so far; the kind that you want to last for a really long time. Unfortunately, this happened whilst I was reading for my postgrad abroad, with the threat of geographical separation on the horizon. I flew back home this week, but she has a couple more years studying there before she returns to her own country. From her crying and begging I got the impression that she doesn't want things to end between us.

Neither do I to be honest, and I have some business opportunities there so I have more than enough incentive to go back in August. She agreed to continue our relationship if I do go back, but here's the catch, and I'll quote her directly here, "I want to sleep with A LOT of guys this summer, because every girl needs to do it at least once in her life."

What the hell? It sounds paradoxical given her supposed feelings for me. However, we hooked up almost immediately after she broke up with her boyfriend of 4 years, with whom she had an open relationship. I imagine this is normal for her, and she did say that she wants to see what being single is truly like. Then again, it seems like she's echoing her slutty bestfriend.

It bothered me at first, but we both knew that we'd be fooling around with other people once we're separated. Nevertheless, I'm confident enough and agreed to this. Worst case scenario I find another girl during my own fooling around.

Here's where I need help. How can I keep her attraction in me high enough to last an entire summer of sucking off other guys whilst I'm in another country? I know the easier route is finding another girl but I don't see what I've got to lose by trying to keep the spark alive with my girlfriend.

We chat often online, but I've yet to give her my SPAM.

As for myself, I'm handsome and somewhat of a natural (though my PUA skills still need some work), so my Facebook is often filled with pictures of me with attractive women. I was thinking of doing stuff like volunteering to keep her interested (and cause I've been aching to do so for ages). And we also planned 2 separate meetups in 2 different European cities during the summer. Though I'm certain that I can do more. Advice?

I should mention that her fears are that (1) she won't feel the same way about me by the end of summer [therefore I can't return since I'll be living with her], (2) she'll fall for some other guy instead [seriously?]

Cheers.
Any and all help is much appreciated.

Never put aside your personal goals and dreams in order to please a slut.

GFTOW then re-assess your desire to stay in contact with this sperm toilet.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

God no, me first, girlfriend second.

I honestly was considering getting rid of her, but again I've got nothing to lose. So assuming that I want to keep her around for the time being, any input?

Cheers.

Yeah fuck her dude.

Go pursue your dreams and find a better woman. Takes the cake that she wants to be in a relationship with you but also wants to sleep around. To me this says it wasn't going to last anyway: She's got it in her head that she's going to spend a year fucking everyone she can get her snatch around. She was either going to break it off with you sometime in the future(After you gave up lucrative career options for her!) to sleep around or she was going to cheat on you.

Move on, enjoy your future and keep in touch if that makes you feel better. Don't give up your life for this woman.

Answering your last question... Dump her. Seriously, you'll only end up hurt in the end. You may say "but I was going to end it anyway... may aswell keep her around" but emotions will override any logic you could throw at it and you'll end up really upset and over what? Something you seen coming a mile off, left standing in the middle of the road like a deer to a trucks headlights. Except the truck is driven by your gf and she plans on having venison for dinner. Get the fuck out of there.