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| alphabro | PostPosted: Wed May 28, 2014 8:09 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot | Joined: Mon May 12, 2014 1:27 am Posts: 342 Location: denver | | attraction- this stage consists of two or more people meeting each other and experiencing a biological and emotional attraction.
Values fitting- after attraction, the parties start moving towards commitment, but first they decide if values are in line. This stage includes addition, reduction, and changing of values to move closer to commitment.
Commitment- this stage usually consists of one sign of commitment- this could be a conversation, a proposal to get married, moving in together, or something similar. Basically the parties make a verbally or nonverabally commitment to merge life paths.
assesment- with every relationship, people are constantly assessing the cost verse benefit. Parties take everything they know, feel, believe, and perceived outcome into account and make a decision to stop or continue.
Recommitment or break up- this stage follows reassessment. If the parties believe the relationship costs more than it is worth, they break up. If the parties believe they receive value front he relationship there will be another commitment moment.
reassesment- same as assessment but follows the recommitment
Recommitment or break up-
Any comments or questions? I know this isn't complete or very detailed but I am planning to write a book about this and would like some input. Thank you guys.
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| Heywood Jablowme | PostPosted: Wed May 28, 2014 8:44 pm | |
| Offline | | King Among Mortals |  | Joined: Tue Oct 18, 2011 8:36 pm Posts: 7592 Location: United States | | I think it may be posted in the wrong spot, try Pinterest. _________________ They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.
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| alphabro | PostPosted: Thu May 29, 2014 3:08 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot | Joined: Mon May 12, 2014 1:27 am Posts: 342 Location: denver |
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| alphabro | PostPosted: Thu May 29, 2014 8:30 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot | Joined: Mon May 12, 2014 1:27 am Posts: 342 Location: denver | | I guess this does violate rule number 3 even though it is important to know this stuff for a healthy relationship. I tried to find how to delete it but i'm unmotivated or lazy or something. Could you tell me how to delete it?
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