Over the past few months I have been trying to convince my Christian Girlfriend to have sex with me.
I saw a similar thread but his situation is different but here is mine:

We are both in the first year of Uni (both Asian too). I'm with her for 4 months now and we sleep on the same bed for nearly everyday. She's quite a strong christian(going to church every Sunday and stuff) preaching me about the beliefs every now and then.
There are aspects of her that is not too christian though she does drink and get drunk at times but she tend to get very guilty afterwards. A liberal Christian, I would say.

I confronted her about sex before and she seemed very unsure about it but over the months (escalating every week) I managed to get her up to the point of BJ, swallow, handjob, she riding me (with no insertion kinda like massage palours) and fingering(but never really fingered with passion because she said it's too painful.).

I have been stuck at these stages for a month already and when I confronted her she said it's about her 'religion' and she was being scared of being 'guilty for the rest of her life'.

Apart from the no-sex, our relationship is perfectly fine.

I really do not know how to break this religion barrier. She is clearly liberal but she has her lines.
She is a very nice girl and I would like to establish a long term relationship with her. But bros, I also want the sex too.

Thanks for the help in advance.

sounds like you need a new gf because you clearly have different values and it's not going to work long term.

The sociopathic answer is much more simple.

Tell her it's ok to have bad thoughts and act on her desires, as long as she confesses her sins to God and asks for his forgiveness.

If she's hardcore Christian and won't put out, you need a new chick.

If sex is big for you, and she doesn't care for it - that's a pretty big missing component in a working relationship.

Thanks for all other advise. But I believe our values doesn't deviate too much and she already conceded a lot in terms of sexual activity already. So I'm finding other ways other than 'moving on'.

I shall try this one and report.

Read a bible together while in bed and look for Song of Songs. Here's an excerpt: http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?se ... 0Songs%201

Subtly rub on her breasts, nipples and her legs near her pussy area and when you're about 20 minutes deep into the bible study, make out, tongue her earlobes, dry hump her with your hard on and so on. Sip on some red wine while doing your bible studies.

Physical foreplay combined with mental foreplay has its benefits when it comes to deeply religious Christian girls. Be patient with your foreplay and you're good. 20 minutes. Rule of thumb. Play some 7 Justin Bieber songs in the background so you're sure you've been doing enough foreplay before attempting to eat her pussy, some fisting, licking her asshole and eventually penis in the vagina.

Moreover, refer to your cock as a gazelle and her pussy as cedar blossoms. Proper language will help you get the goods. Be very tactful. Use proper religious language something like:

The fig tree forms its early fruit;
the blossoming vines spread their fragrance.
Arise, come, my darling;
my beautiful one, come with me.

Works for me, might work fer yah.

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Hey man, interesting question. I have a different opinion from everyone else but you may find it clarifying. It's your physical desires Vs. her spiritual ones. For starters, learn to be noble and have integrity. Respect other people's religion and views; even Mystery said, "No, means no". I know people have different beliefs than I do, I hear them out, but in the end of the day if I disagree, I still respect their view. I'm a seeker of truth -- we all should be, it's part of liberating our minds as Kant would say. She feels that sex with you is something she'd feel guilty about and something she can't take back because she's on a spiritual journey for real love and enlightenment (nothing personal). I'd encourage you to hear her beliefs and consider them.

Do you want to be responsible for taking someone you care about off a path they dedicated their life too for 3 mins of pleasure? Think about that. It's better to remain friends, and seek your desires elsewhere. I don't think anyone here would disagree with not manipulating others and having integrity. Best of wishes.

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If "no" was a "no" then all women would be virgins. I've fucked countless girls that said no to me at the first time. They eventually say yes ofc. A no it's just a delayed yes.

I do that all the time. what's the big deal? they even thank me after that.

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You two have different values.
Don't be an asshole and force her into it.

Respect her decision and if she doesn't want to put out, find someone else

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If it was just some clubrat I would say slay that ass.. But since you are her boyfriend, you indirectly agreed to treat her better than some random. I'm not saying don't pursue a sexual relationship, just do so with respect.

Honestly, her religion is holding her back spiritually, mentally, and physically. You wouldn't be doing a horrible thing by helping realign her beliefs. I remember when I was 20, I was holding on to my v card because I thought God wanted me to do so. Once I lost it, I went on a rampage. to this day i'm really disappointed that I waited so long. There were some perfect 10's who wanted my vcard, and more 10's who just wanted me in general. I ended up losing it to a hoe7. I think from time to time about how my life would be different if I hadn't waited so long and rarely do I conclude I would be worse off.

Anyway, I don't know if that helps. If you take anything away from what I say, it is treat her with respect. she is your girlfriend. We've all had sex with a girl and dumped her like a shit at an airport, but most of us aren't proud of that.

Decisions are not always set in stone especially when more accurate information appears, most humans are likely to change their decisions.

If you pop your load in less than 2 minutes, that's utter disrespect. The best way to respect a deeply religious girl is to bring her closer to God by banging her brains out.

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If she were hardcore Christian she wouldn't be drinking.

So, forget about her being a hardcore Christian and start focusing on comfort about the topic with her. It's as simple as that. She's let herself slide so far with or without your helping hand which means she's more than able to go all the way without her religion holding her back. It's simple an excuse, not a genuine belief. If she didn't smoke or drink or do anything sexual I would be with the guys saying "find someone else asap" but I believe the focus should be on comfort here and not negating her religion.

Trust me, a devote Christian would not suck your dick dry and swallow your cum as if it were whipped cream. She ain't that devote. She needs comfort, she wants to move on and fuck you but she needs more time and comfort with you in order to feel that it's "right." Just consider it in terms of her being a 17 year old virgin who "isn't sure." How would you handle that? Ideally you wouldn't confront her and force it on her, you would comfort her, make her feel it was alright and enjoyable and gradually work towards the big O.

no one here said to force things. but you can try to change her mind. but you can't change her values.

Fuck. A devote Christian should be drinking real hard. Even Mary coerced Jesus to create more wine at the wedding party in Canaa. If marijuana and cocaine were already in fashion during those times, I have no doubts that Mary would have had pestered Jesus to make more marijuana and coke for the wedding party.

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