Hi friends,


I am 42. I have been PUAing for some years and Im doing ok but always want to improve. I tend to run natural game (which does have its limitations) + whatever techniques work for me.

As I learn more about myself....I have learned that....in bed, I am very dominant, confident, its like a natural language to me. I didnt learn this, its instinct. I am pleased with this.

On the personality realm, I am sort of a mix of laid back, polite, even keeled, funny,foul mouthed, real, down to earth, touchy feely, I can be bold, laissez-faire, situationally out going and spontaneous, at the core I am polite and shy but have out grown a lot of it but its still there. I do not have a dominant personality though I have experimented with acting it as part of my PUA learning and of course have observed i guys with dominant personalities throughout my life experiences.

AAANYWAY, what is my point.....I often wonder how to take that natural dominance I have in bed and somehow channel that into.... my personality or perhaps better said my personality habits. Why? Let me clarify, my goal is not to flatly dominate women. I just want to be stronger as a man, period. I feel this will let me handle women better and the different situations that come up when interacting with women and in relationships.


Make sense?

Thanks in advance for your thoughts on this.

Reflex