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"There is no concrete evidence to back what I am about to say. Its more of a metaphysical thing, but what I've experienced and what many people I've known have experienced is women can always hold out for a moment longer than the point where it seems almost unbearable for men. By unbearable I mean.. At the point where you are feeling like " Fuck this shit.. I'm going to just call/text/ her". When its so strong is the point at which she is thinking about contacting you the most.
Energy always follows thought.
Now let me say; if you reach out to contact her at this point, you will be putting off an opportunity for you to learn the power of letting the woman go. And this is a lesson all men must learn before they can become truly successful with women. You only learn this lesson by letting go out of choice, not necessity.
Men tend to thank they've let women go after they texted her 10 times, called her 3 and she ignore them. Thats not letting the woman go. Thats called picking the only option you have left. You let go out of necessity, not choice. So you don't acquire the stronger sense of presence/aura that attracts women that a man acquires from letting go of women he still has a chance with. You don't grow - you don't learn. You stay on your current level.
I could go on and on about this, but the moral of the passage is; if you're interested in growing in the long run, I would leave this one alone. She may reach out - she may not, but what you will acquire will be much more beneficial than any one relationship ever could be.
Now if that isn't your interest and you feel both comfortable and content with where you are on your journey. Call her don't text. Call her up and let her know that you'd still like to continue to see her. Be cool and be calm; like you've been busy in life lately, but you've accomplished a few things and you now have time to date again. A woman is always responsive to that kind of energy.
I've read this forum off and on for a few years now. Very successful with women, some of it is because of this forum. I'm in a rut with a woman that makes me want to finally settle down (this is huge for me, I'm 34 and never thought about settling down). I've done everything that would keep most women interested, but it isn't working with this one.
That being said, even though I am certain that leaving her be will not improve my odds of ever being with her again, your nuggets of wisdom have certainly enlightened me. If it works, then great, if not, I am confident that it's a choice of my own, not that it is the only choice I have left. I feel empowered in a way I never have before, especially after rocking her world one last night.
For this, I thank you.
CHAT
