I have this girl that is only a text relationship for now. She lives too far away for us to even hang out occasionally, I know its kind of stupid but i like her and i like the distance. Im happy with all that so i don't want to talk about it. Ive been talking to her for 7 months now and after the first two i could tell she was really into me. I sent her a letter asking her to be my girlfriend and currently she is writing me back and is going to tell me yes. so that pretty much gets you up to speed.
The first few months i was totally the alpha male and everything ive learned on this site and books worked! it was great! but recently we have been getting in fights about how i dont give her enough attention! The one thing that really bugs me is about her is she never tells me what she is doing and wont text back. Is a simple "hey im going to be doing homework for a while" too much to ask?
And now we are fighting because it really bugs me that she is always talking about her guy friends that are STRICTLY friends. I trust that but it still bugs me that she talks about them and her ex. I dont know if that should bug me or not considering im not that good at relationships.
Any help would be awesome!! Thanks.

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Um...

I stopped at "text relationship." Yes. Yes you are needy.

Don't ask what she's doing.. Maybe once, certainly not to start conversation. Better start with 'what you're wearing?'

I stopped at 'I sent her a letter asking her to be my girlfriend'



Agreed. You are needy.

She's not even your girlfriend yet when you made this thread. Likewise, if you haven't fucked her yet, a text reply in the affirmative does not mean anything at all.

Penis in the vagina. That's what seals the deal and not some crystal ball gazing on what she might text you back.

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Approach. Open. Escalate. Isolate

Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

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