hi guys! new to this and had a question that's made me wonder recently, i have been with my girlfriend for about 6 months now and the first 2 months were brilliant-this was because i was the dominant alpha in the relationship and i feel this meant my girlfriend treated me better and was much more keen which i absolutely loved. the trouble then came when i went out clubbing and got completely wasted, i kissed another girl and told my girlfriend about it straight away over text. i woke up in the morning and groveled to get her back, telling her how great she is,how much i loved her and pretty much anything i could to make the situation better with her as i felt so bad.
my problem is that ever since i had to do this i feel that she has become a lot more dominant to the point of one day her calling me "whipped" (meaning i am one of those guys who will do what ever she says basically being a beta) which i took as the worst compliment ever. i want to know what i can do to become the alpha in the relationship again as i know how important to my relationship it is but also if i can do anything because if im the beta, then try to become alpha by seeming less interested, not texting her back occasionally and things like that it wont make me more dominant rather than it will make her think i don't like her anymore and that there is a problem in the relationship.

any help will be appreciated many thanks!

Seems like you have onitis man...lots of my friends get this disease and it is very counterproductive...abundance will cure this pussy whipped characteristic. just my take anyway

so your saying i should start just gaming with other girls?

What if you would catch her doing something considered "cheating"? or convince her that it was cheating?
That way you two could be again equal....
Just saying...

Yes man I think if she's calling you whipped then perhaps she's feeling a little too comfortable...Lets not forget who's got the golden balls here! Show her you have choice and abundance and she will learn to show some respect and count her blessings or lose out

things are getting there slowly thanks guys

Hahahahahaha.

Yeah, because being distant, ignoring her and not giving her attention after you've cheated on her is really going to solidify her confidence in you and make you "Alpha." Ri-ight. Do yourself a favour: Put your hand up to your face, get a pen and write "Sally" on it. Say "Hi." Sally will be your new companion for the next few months after your girlfriend either dumps your ass or has a good old fashioned orgy to spite your cheating ass.

You don't "be alpha" in relationships. You simply have respect for yourself and your woman. You don't let people treat her or you like shit. If she jokes that's fine -- we all joke. I've joked with girlfriends about them being whipped and they've joked about me being whipped. Know what I do when they say that? I mess with them. I'll sarcastically say "Yeah, of course. Only you babes." then grab her and lick her face to piss her off or tickle and mess her hair she spent two hours brushing that morning.

If you cheated on her and she's constantly doubting you or pulling strings and controlling you then you just stand your ground and tell her there's nothing you can do about the past and either she can either take it or leave it.

A relationship shouldn't be about power. If a chick tries to take power just make a joke out of the whole ordeal and outweigh the stupid shit she tries to put up by joking around with her and making your time together actually fun and carefree. Don't tally whose who in the relationship unless there's a clear displacement in balance. If that's the case just dump her because women/people like that exist and they won't change.