Ok so my gf and I had been dating/hooking up for a while, we finally got official about two montha ago heres the thing we had a big argument two weeks ago where she said I hide what bothers me and dont tell her and I find excuses not to tell her and that bothers her. She had mentioned it before and I always brushed it off like nothing of importance well this time she snapped shes says she just doesnt what is true and what Im just saying to shut her up. We constantly argue about this for the past two weeks every time it comes up. Yesterday ahe finally said Im getting tired of always fighting about the same thing. So I finally shut up and just talked and hung out with her and we had fun things seemed better after last night. Any ideas on what I should do, should I just forget the issue work with what she told me and re enforce happy memories with her?

Does she have a point ? Do you not tell her if something bothers you ?

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And also. Why do people think that reinforcing happy memories can help anything? Where the hell did this bullshit come from? I see it everywhere and it just doesn't work. You know what that does? She realizes how good it used to be and how crappy it is now. It's like you're building a strawman on yourself and more often than not it backfires badly. Solving the actual issues in the relationship is what works...

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