Hi all,

I've been reading through all of these posts here and it's quite clear to me how to deal with real life situations. However, I don't see my GF too often and mostly we just text each other. Everyday she sends me stuff like 'how was your day?' and 'what are you doing?' without really telling anything interesting herself.

I think she does that because she wants attention and to have a conversation but really, sometimes I don't know what to tell her. Also, sometimes when I try to contribute to the convo she responds with really stupid answers like okay and very nice. I could just back off, but on the other side I don't want to be boring aswell and I also want to have great conversations with my GF. What to do?

try to analyze your conversation with your friends, generally, you are fine, but since you think too much about how to keep conversation interesting you screwing it up, just flow with the words.

I know, but what to answer on those questions like 'how is your day' etc. when there is really nothing to tell? Problem here is that she never comes up with anything interesting.

well you can try playful, play with feelings, for example, joy, sadness, happiness, teasting,
like texting, in not logical way, using bunch of feeling, doesn't have to be in context.
you: "so lonely without you!!!!!"
she: why?
y: "cause i miss you baby."
s: hahaha
y: "do you like justin bieber?"
s: yea.
y: "he is my fantasy"
s: no way.
y: "you know who else?"
y: you are.
s: hahahah
y: i hate you!!
s: why?
h: cause you are boring hahaha!!!
s: realy?
h: yea, how was your day?
and bla bla bla things like this.

once i gamed a waitress for fun i even had a nick for her - monkey and bitch haha, i made her crazy, also made her jealous, well she was into me but i wasn't.

How was your day? This is the problem? I mean this is the easiest question ever. You can come up with ANYTHING entertaining basically to this question.

How was your day?

"Great, I just reanimated a mountain goat. Pure thing got hit by a bus, but I saved it with CPR"

"Awesome. Darth Vader came to visit and told me he was my father. Mom is denying everything, but the guy seemed pretty legit"

...

I could go on for ever with these things. I came up with these right now, and I already have plenty of ideas how I'd start flirting...("the goat said I was a good kisser..." or "imagine all the bedroom possibilities once I will be able to use the Force." etc...) Just keep things fun.

Peace,

In$tinct

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Thanks guys, appreciate your help.

Fact is (maybe I should have told this earlier) that she broke up with me because she thought our relationship was becoming boring and I was showing off some beta behaviour. After that we got back together but I really don't want to be boring and a wussy to her. However, these tips helped me and I finally start to see the grand picture of it all.

Any more tips on how to deal with this situation in general? I'm all ears.

Chef, I don't like to advertize myself, but you might be interested in my extended relationship guide. It's pretty long but it covers how to be unpredictable, among other very important concepts, and you might find it interesting. You can find the topic in my signature.

Peace,

In$tinct.

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"Bros before hoes"

Relationship guide: extended-relationship-guide-vt170687.html

http://wayoftheplayer.com/become-a-player/instinct

Have read it already man, thanks!