During our last holiday we had a late night talk about our fantasies. The sex is great but conventional so I used the oppprtunity. My gf of six months told me that she was aroused when watching porn in which women were being dominated/bondaged but felt not at ease doing it. I then told her after some tame stuff that I'd like to tie her to the bed. This made her uncomfortable ("made her thinking") and though she still wants to see me she has put some distance betwen us (we returned on Friday from our holidays and while we both had stuff to do will be meeting on Tuesday or Wednesday at the earliest even though we both still have holidays). She has a difficult family history and is very self-reliable as a result of this (though she's definitely not damaged goods) might feel uncomfortable with giving up control.

I am unsure how to proceed with this.

Thx for hints!

Role reversal, let her tie YOU up.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

This is something I suggested to her during the conversation. It is not one of my fantasies but I wanted to make sure she feels at ease. I still think she's not.

Start milder, like talking dirty, then advance.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Let her tie a red ribbon on your penis. If she complies, gradually amp it up as her comfort level increases.

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Approach. Open. Escalate. Isolate

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