So she's an HB8, we've been dating for almost 2 months.

So it's not simply just looking through her phone, but She was taking a shower and a text popped up. It was one of those texts you can see on the screen kind of thing when it goes off, and I don't remember what it said exactly, but it was something pretty sexual towards her. So it piqued my curiosity, so I read through the conversation a bit.... and it was pretty.... unnerving... I mean the dude was talking about banging her, asking her when the next time she was gonna be in (insert nearby city here), and that he was holding in his cum for her and shit.

So she came back, and I told her that I saw it. And so she tells me that it's a dude she used to be fuckbuddies with. And that she's teasing him because he can't have her anymore.

I really don't like them talking to eachother and I've told her that I don't like that he's talking to her like that. So should I tell her to stop talking to him? Or what? I'm kind of conflicted on what to do, cause if I tell her to stop talking to him I might get turned into a jealous, demanding boyfriend, but if I don't say anything I'm gonna get butthurt about it, and I know it.

So any advice fellas?

-PM

If you're not fuckbuddies with her and you're boyfriend-girlfriend, tell her in a serious, but nonchalant manner that you're not comfortable with her teasing her former fubu. Don't nag. Don't be angry or judgmental when you say your piece of mind. Set your boundaries. If she complies out of respect to your boyfriend-girlfriend relationship, then you're good. If she doesn't comply, then move on and dump her, or make her your fubu.

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something important is missing here.. what were her answers to his requests

this, if she was flirting back, next her in a heart beat