Here's my dilemma.

I'm normally not a jealous guy at all but after being In the game we obviously learn our skills and all. I'm very good at picking up on body language and such to read IOIs etc.

I've been with my girlfriend for aabout 2.5 months. We are madly in love with each other. But the other night I had a party at my place and she came with a friend of hers who is a guy. I've known of him for a while and it didn't bugged me that she wa a friends with him. And she doesn't hang out with him all that much really. They just talk as friends and stuff in a group chat with her girlfriends. I initially thought he may be gay but no big deal.

So at the party I just picked up on IOIs. She said his name a lot. Laughed a lot at stuff th a t really didn't appear to be funny. A touch on the arm here or there. Generally she seemed just very excited about him. Basically if I had a girl doing that to me I d know that I had it in with her. I'd be good to go.

It's been bugging me a couple of days now. I know that jealousy is horrible which is why I haven't said anything. I figured it's probably because it's her friend she doesn't get to see all that often and she is in my group of friends where she is still unfamiliar really. She isn't in that comfort zone with my friends yet.

There hasn't been any problems between us. She tells me she loves me a lot spontaneously. She looks me in the eye in the way that you know she means it. So how do I get this off my mind? Should I say something or suppress it until it dies? Is this an often experience for a PUA in a relationship. I've not had a serious girlfriend since I was in high school if you can call that serious.

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You're being paranoid and thinking too much into it.

You said you thought he might be gay? Well there has to be a reason for this. He probably comes across as very feminine and women naturally feel comfortable and at ease with feminine guys because they don't naturally see them as potential suitors thus the touching and laughing.

Also, she knows him for a while? Just friends bro. If she's known him a long time why isn't she with him instead of you, the new guy?

Unless it gets really dodgy and obvious I don't think you have anything to worry about. A little touch on the shoulder here and there means fuck all in most cases unless you're into PU, not in the friendzone and gaming a chick.

You're right. I'll let it be.

To be honest though the only reason I thought he was gay is because he is an actor as is my girlfriend and he is friends with a couple of chick's. So I put two and two together. He isn't feminine at all.

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This is a tough one. If they don't really see each other it could be a genuine guy friend who she hasn't seen in awhile, which explains her excitement. Or it could be the opposite, but you don't need me to explain that one. I wouldn't get too caught up in it for now. Sorry I couldn't be much of help with this one.

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