Well me and my girlfriend have been having a few issues this past month but we decided to sort things out.

I find out that she has been telling her best friend everything even the most intimate and private aspects of our relationship, things I would never talk about to any of my own friends.

And recently she wanted me to hang out with her best friend which I refused because the best friend knows all our problems and she knows more about me than my own family and friends.
Am I over reacting about her telling her friend everything? Is this a normal thing for girls to do?

So I have been having problems in bed recently and I already feel like Shit for it and I refuse to resort to Viagra for a quick fix and her friend knows this! I haven't even talked to my brother about it who I talk with about everything and yet this girl who I have met 4 times in my life knows this private aspect of my life. Am I wrong in refusing to go hang out with her friend?

I feel like this relationship is truly over.

If you're in a relationship (and often even when you're not) - girls talk to each other, yes.

Normally they wouldn't tell you about it afterwards... I'm sorta shocked this girl told you she's blabbed to her friend about sexual issues (like... even if she did, why would she tell you?)

Bottom line: I think it's normal for them to talk... as embarrassing as it may be for you. It's my feeling most girls will keep that private from you though, and you wouldn't be aware of it.

Who knows... Maybe your girlfriend wants to invite her friend to bed with you two to sort out your penis "issues"? Haha... Seriously though, it's happened before.

Anyway, it's to be expected. You just brush it off or ignore it unless your girlfriend is blabbing your problems to absolutely everyone. If it's just one, close friend who can keep her mouth shut then I see no issue with this.

Also, look into your issues. There are a lot of reasons as to why it could be happening(Stress, poor diet, exhaustion... There's lots. Look it up and you'll probably find a drug-free cure).

Yeah its stress related it's related to my previous post trying to sort out my life work, finances and settling back into the hard working lifestyle also I am out of shape.

I have lost a bit if weight related to the stress but I'm completely out of shape!

It really bugs me that girls do this I wonder how they would react if I told my friends all about her! And our sexual exploits.

It's fucked up but I suppose I have to suck it up.

You don't shoot the shit with your buddies?

I do, it's not a big deal. My mates talk about it too... There may be a delayed time like if i'm fucking some chick my mates hang around or know and see i'll wait a while before i'd tell them i'm fucking her but that's all. Got people who talk about getting their prostates milked by their girlfriends, fucking them in crazy places, going on hikes just to fuck on a mountain and all sorts of this. Some of it is nasty but it's guy talk and it stays between guys. The girlfriends never know of course. It's pretty much a given you talk about this shit regardless. Fairly shitty when it's pointed out who knows about it and they know you know that they know. Then again that could just be your girlfriend trying to be nice and trustworthy...

I'm sure she probably thinks you DO discuss it with your buddies.