The girl I've been seeing for a couple of months now has been away for a while. She went away last Monday and is
back this Sunday. We have a get on very well and it is going very well. Usually when she is at home we barely ever
speak on Facebook or even text. The only times we text/facebook is when we are arranging to meet. It's nice to have
it like that.

Anyway the first week she was away we didn't speak because I was busy and to be honest I wanted the distance for a
little bit. I messaged her the other day and we've been having a brief conversation since then but the problem is this.

We've done the mundane small talk (how are you? ect) and now it seems that my side of the conversation is going to
lag. She is on a holiday sort of thing with her course and is in Cyprus which is a lot more fun than being stuck in rainy northern England. Here:

Me:
It''s not too shabby. This and that. Are you making a blockbuster then?
Her:
Yah. Well. Kinda, we're also doing a lot of drinking and swimming and laughing. It's lots of fun and ive made lods of new friends. How's marko doing and your band?


She does a film course hence my blockbuster comment. So other than saying yeah marks good and the band are great. I am bit lost at what to say.

I am going to do two things though for sure at some point in the conversation:

1) Say " I have something for you by the way"
This is a sexual thing. I've been reading up various sex techniques and tricks and have a few things up my sleeve. She will obviously say "What is it?!" ect and I will say you will have to wait and see. Keeping
her in a curious wonder as well as little excited I suppose.

2) Say "I need to talk to you about something important when you get back"
I'll do this just a day or two before she returns. This is something that is important as it effects my Uni work and it
is to do with her work within my work. She will think it's something to do with the relationship though, causing
her to fixate on me.

When it comes to the band I can say some pretty interesting stuff but a lot of it she hears a lot of the time anyway.
She's always at our gigs and hears about the stuff regularly from me so this won't really be exciting stuff to hear.

I kind of want some tips for fun and sexual things to talk about. Any ideas?


This is the first time I've posted for any help with a relationship since being with her and I didn't really want to have to ask for help but I have learnt the importance of keeping things interesting and exciting and unfortunately I am lost for ideas.

I won't lie but i am very bad with text message flirting. But yes you can keep her invested with things like "I need to talk to you about something important when you get back" that's what i do when my GF go on holidays without me. As she told me these things usually keep her thinking about me all the time. And yes thinking about you is a huge kind of investment she can do on you.

The more she invest the higher her interest level will be.

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If she is a drama queen, some sort of statement indicating importance = drama and likely will get her attention.

But I don't date women like that, so I never do it. If you've dated her for awhile, be straight. Tell you miss her and you can't wait to fuck her brains out too.