| 1) Start fucking her and other women first, wait for her to suggest an exclusive relationship, never suggest it first.
2) Assuming she has suggested she wants to be your girlfriend, i guess you can say those things, but don't say "what I want in this relationship", instead you should say "Things I look for in a woman". There's no need to say anything really, just agree to be exclusive, why make it into such a serious speech?
3) Stop saying "we". I'm all for equality, but don't make promises like that. Simply state what you expect from a girlfriend (don't say "what I expect from you") and leave it at that. You don't need to say you won't leave her. In fact, the very thought that you might leave will actually help keep her interested in the long term. The idea of a woman spending her life with you is actually incredibly boring to her, not romantic. If you want to keep a girl, you need to have your own life, career and hobbies which are separate from your relationship. Why is the sentence "I will never leave you" so boring to a woman? Because it means you will be predictable. Predictable means boring. Stop being boring. Give her some drama and she will be hooked.
4) Keep her on her toes. Show her you don't need her. Other women should be interested in you. Personally, I fuck other women, then deny it if my GF asks. Her insecurity keeps her interested in me. Other women wanting to fuck me or claiming they have fucked me simply adds to my pimp status, i.e. She knows she's lucky to be dating such a desirable man. The emotional highs and lows. She clings onto me tighter and fights off other women who want my cock. This is the ideal situation you want to be in. You spend time with her because you want to, not because you "have to".
5) Don't call women "baby" when you're having a serious discussion. It's inappropriately soppy and frankly, gross.
6) Be a fucking badass in bed. Get really good at fingering, licking clit and fucking. Switch it up, try different things. If she's addicted to your cock, she is far less likely to cheat. If you suck in bed, she'll give another guy head.
If you follow the above, your girl is unlikely to cheat. Remember, your behaviour is far more important in ensuring your girl won't cheat than your words. A girl could say "yes I promise I won't cheat" but leave her alone with me in a broken elevator and it's possible that she could conveniently forget about you for a few hours. Actions speak louder than words. Women are emotional, not logical. You are approaching an emotional relationship with a logical mindset, which is wrong. It almost sounds like you want her to sign a contract. If that's the case, get married and say goodbye to your freedom and pickup altogether.
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