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This girl inboxed me 3 weeks ago, talking (ironically) about "how pretty a picture of me and my girlfriend was".
We talked for 4 days online, met on the 4th and f-closed her right there in her place. Brought her to mine, another f-close and sleep over. Etc, we have been going at it and spending time together ever since then. Slept at her place this weekend, even.
This girl has a lot of issues and she is nothing like I would want a woman I relate myself with to be like; drugs (hard drugs), family issues, self-esteem, etc...but she somehow makes me feel alright except for her down-lows and withdrawal symptoms of emotionally crashing. I don't even drink, if anything. So yeah.
I don't know how to approach the fact that she: tries too hard in making it seem like she doesn't care (attitude, rudeness, mentioning other guys; basic disrespect) but actively shows interest crazily (stalking, mentioning other women, telling her friends about me, her guy friends about me, her mom)...
She claims she "does not like having sex for a long time" and that it's always been the case "despite the fact her ex came very quickly, I still did not care about it because I just want to come and have him come and finish dong it." She said that she felt as if I did not think she was good enough (basically because I like having sex for hours, although I purposely came in like 5 minutes one time she said that's what she wanted, and then she got upset lol) We had that sort of talk after I put my clothes on and she laid in bed undressed. So we talked, and we kind of argued so I l just left her apartment, and she texted me saying "I don't understand".
I replied just "hey"
She repeated "I don't understand", so I just said "hey" again. The reason for this was that she was being an idiot about the whole discussion so I just left her as it was.
She always picks a fight, then plays the victim, I don't know what to do here either. I had been discussing with her to understand for three hours and finally left, so then she comes and tells me she did not understand, like, wtf?
I just go sleep. I was asleep when she sent me "I saw her. She is soooo pretty."
I woke up and just said "good morning", to which she replied with my girl's name and then added "I like her name".
She found out my girlfriend's name. She had asked weeks before and I basically refused to say anything, although she complained she had told me about all her past guys (which she did) but I just feel a relationship and just fucking random idiots are two completely different levels, so I said nothing.
I haven't replied to that and I don't know what the fuck is going on.
Ask me any questions so I can further elaborate on the situation, but...I don't know what to say.
I want her to stop mentioning other guys or making me feel threatened when in reality we both know she is the one who is insecure as fuck about me disappearing (I am the one with visibly more options).
No one really commented and I solved things out by myself. In case anyone reads this and wonders what happened...girls like this aren't worth the trouble.
Don't ever put up with anyone's shit. Unreactive is the way to do.
Get pussy, don't care, when she doesn't want to give it anymore...same, don't care. Move on.
Women blame men for not being into them emotionally but time and time again I feel tables now a days have been reversed so...why not fit the role we've been stigmatized with for so long?
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