i want her to chase me, and not me to chase her, like im doing like an idiot ,how to ?

do you know anything about pua techniques and have you read anything on the message board yet?

Or just came here desperate and asking a question without any details and effort, basically without any homework?

+1

But,if she is your girlfriend why do you have to play chase and catch?
You are obviously more invested in the relationship than her,which is totally wrong cause she controls the whole thing.Lay it cool,and let her invest in you.Which means let her initiate convos when you are not together,and the biggest thing is,give her the best sex of her life.

Stop trying so hard..Find something to occupy your mind.
.She'll chase

Before writing a (stupid) question like that I'd read every post I could to at least making my question interesting to answer to. GO AND READ SOME POSTS!!

ive read post all of them of 6 months now,i fond my answer a long time ago I asked her? ive been knowing her for 9 months now shes an independent woman that dont need a man at all, she head strong and she beautiful,and she a christian and sticks to her believes ,well after 9 months i stop chasing and texting now she want me more in her life ,she said she tested me for 9 months to see if i was staying around or just wanted sex,,now i know it was a test so i stopped chasing and now she talks to me about everything ,i got in her comfort zone finally and now she was talking about the a future with me in it ,im older now and want to settle down for good ,thats why i wanted her in my life she a good girl and someone i can trust thats why i tried so hard for her, now question,she said she wants good guy like me in her life for good,im helping her all the time and showed her im willing to take care of her with things i do around her yard and helping her around house. how do i take it to the next step and not be pushed away again?i read things on this site they dont work on this girl at all tried to kiss her every way this site says dont work with her ,so i asked her is there a time you wanted to kiss me and she said yes,i asked when was that she said when i wasnt pushing her into it.so i stop all together tring like this site says and im waiting on her now to feel them feeling she says she needs before it can happen,how can i make her have them butterflys in her stomach again? like she talks about ,she tell me it will happen when i stop pushing her.

if you want a woman that you can settle down with you got to give her time no hurry with forever fond out my mom was that way 7 months my stepdad tried for her by then he only held her hand after 7 months thats it i said mom, she to is head strong raise 3 children without a man ,independent lady she still is ,,all she told me was he never quit trying ,,they been married 20 yrs now ,,because he never stop trying so i wont either shes a lady she should be treated as one ,theres no hurry when your young but when you get older you will want to settle down most of you and you just got to give her time to trust her with her words and she needs to know you wont leave her, thats only if shes plays hard to get, but every game has to end the question is when will it?