Me and my girlfriend just broke up a few hours ago.2 days ago we had a silly fight(i started it) beacuse of a misunderstanding..
The last month was really great like i love you masseges we'll be together forever and such.
We talked yesterday she explained her side and i apologized.But she kept saying she is angry hurt etc..

Today i called and she said she wants to come over to break up,i was shocked and talled her WTF you think you're doing.she said she feels bad,i asked her if she loves me she said yes.So i kep explaining that it's stupid to break up because of a fight.She said it's my feelings there's nothing to do about it.And she thinks that i don't accept her fully(she has a shitty past)but i said many times that i do accept her.

So i asked her again(beacuse really it didn't made sense) if she loves me.She said i don't want to answer it right now so i asked few more times and she said no.Again i dont understand few minutes ago i love you i really do it's just hard for me with the fighting.

So i said "why didn't you say so from the start,ok come to me today to bring me my stuff back."

I really don't want to lose this girl,i know there is a right way to do it.
PLEASE help me what should i say when we meet how should i act what the fuck should i do..

I've been through enough break ups to know that what you have to do is the hardest thing. Keep your cool, reign in your emotions, be civil. Ask her if she needs a hand with her shit and then that's it. You delete her number and go No Contact, then either she comes back or you move on, win-win situation.

It messes with a girls head when the guy she dumps doesn't cry, beg, try to bargain and then blow up her phone every time he is drunk for months. Doing those things reinforces her decision. Cutting contact and getting on with your life will fuck with her, but of course, the goal of no contact is to move on and mean it. Hoping and waiting for her call will make it painful when it doesn't come and you will cave in!

She will call you though, but be prepared for it to take months. Don't pick up right away or go running back when she calls, because she will know you're not over her. Be over her, and in a position where you're considering fucking her again as one of your options when the other girls you're seeing aren't free.

Honestly though, she sounds kind of immature. How old are you guys?

What was the argument about? Need details.

Sometimes, girls will make a mountain out of a molehill to find an excuse to end the relationship because they don't like confrontation and most are too gutless to just be honest and say they want out. This could be what's happening.

But yeah, either way the above advice stands.

In a month or two you won't want her back.

we're 21..
The argument was about that she posted something on facebook about "why shouldn't you suck his dick"
and that annoyed me and an argument broke off.
And the night before that we talked and i heard that she was showing off to be cool in front off her friends so i told her that..We talked the next day she explained it(i was allso a little drunk) and i apologized.

That's it and she breaks off because of that shit i just don't get it,i remind you bro last month masseges of i love you forever you're everything and such..

What to do bro i want her back in the near future not months

How long were you together? Be very wary of girls who are all lovey dovey after mere months. It's a big red flag in my experience. As a general rule, be wary of girls who say ridiculous things like "You're everything to me" etc. They've usually got some Hollywood bullshit notion of love on a pedestal and none of their relationships will match up.

You probably won't get her back in the near future, and besides, how much more drama will there be? The argument she escalated is probably a smokescreen masking what is really happening, be mindful of that. Could be another guy on the scene.

But yeah, you should have been non-reactive in the first place.

We're a year together..

What to do when i meet her dude really.. i dont want to lose her

You have to be willing to lose her, willing to walk away, its a huge part of success with women and not being a needy person.

When you meet her, do like I said, cool and calm, don't try and kiss her, don't talk things through. Don't even attempt to talk things through, seriously, let her get her stuff and then go no contact.

Though this is very hard and I doubt this is what you will do.

Please guys I need more opinions..

What opinions? I think Rough said what is enough.

Been there, done that. I'll tell you what is exactly happening, it's one of both cases: She is either losing attraction for you and used your argument as an excuse to end the relationship, or another interesting guy has just entered her life. Go on, talk to her if you want to and beg for your relationship back, bet that you're going to do it anyways because you're convinced. But I'll tell you what, I did it once and it ended up badly that it took around 5 months for us to recover as FRIENDS ONLY. The moment she came back to me was the moment her friends told her that I was dating 3 girls and that was it, she lost attraction for all guys and came back to APOLOGIZE for what happened. But then I realized that I've met a lot of girls WAY much better than her, and we both agreed to settle for friends. Besides, she has a charming personality and good looks, and like she said, it's sad how we never even said "hi" to each other after all what we've been through.

Anyways, back to your case. Freeze her off, if she wants a breakup, then you have a life to think about. I know how badly it feels right now for you to move on, but trust me, she won't care until she sees you better off. Man up and swallow those emotions, go no contact at all and work on yourself. Work to be the perfect guy any girl would want to have. Go out more often, sign up for any activity, go to the gym, think about your studies, and most importantly get laid by other chicks.

Thank me later.

Thx guys i really needed that

You can't win her back right now,just follow my advice on what will get her back,which is an agreement on what previous posters said.

Move on !

Be kind to her,when you meet and then dont call her again.
Don't delete her off facebook,just unfollow her so that you don't get her updates,turn off chat from her,and delete her from anywhere else.Write her number down in a paper,and hide it somewhere,then delete it from your phone.After that,just go on with your life,doing stuff for yourself,hanging around with your mates,etc.
On the 2nd-3rd week,hopefully you would have met some girls,or just use a female friend she doesnt know,take a picture and post it on Facebook.(Sounds immature,I may get hate for that and how I actually advise someone to do something immature,but thats a really nice showoff way that your life is moving on).The girl will contact you during the first month,provided that the break up wasnt caused by a 3rd person,meaning she wasnt already moving on with someone else.When she calls you the first month,probably she will just wanna hang around to justify that maybe your life is worse than hers.On the contrary,play it cool,act as if the break up was actually a good thing,not saying that,but implying it.At the end of the meeting she will be all over you begging you to be together.Tried and tested.

And now I will you my biggest advice,since I am at your age and I kinda understand you.When something's broken,when you glue the pieces together it won't be the same...Cause that thing broke for a reason...Maybe you ll have to find someone else to have good times with

All the best mate !

I agree with everything Rough Operator said, be willing to lose her. And either way, you already fucked up way too much. For future reference, never try to convince a girl to stay using logic, it will never ever work.. But seriously dude, even if you manage to keep her through a miracle, you are way too needy to keep her right now. You need to let her go, become happy on your own and get your shit together for a few months, and then think about getting in a relationship with her or any other girl.