So right at the start of university i went out with this girl we got a long, we moved in together pretty quickly to (financially it was better) and weve been happy but she has some habits i dont like, shes from malaysia im from the uk shed want me to move to malaysia cos her parents are there ( i said well you realise my parents are here ) she comes from a wealthy family so has a spending problem and is selfish and wants her own way all the time (only child).. ive had these thoughts on and off but the past few days its been in my head a lot.

But the reason it is is because there is another girl at uni who ive been flirting with but it was only when i started talking to her that id like to see where things would go (not like a relationship but whatever) however I have a conscience and I can actually see myslf using pua techniques on this new girl which is making me worried because im not intentionally doing it. But this is the first time as there have been 3-4 other girls during my relationship who i could have easily gone out with but maybe this time im at my wits end.

more than anything I am in a moral dilemma i dont want to break my current girlfriends heart and at the same time I am 21 and id like to "sow my wild oats" as the saying goes. any advice guys ?

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Destruction is creation at its simplest form

Sow your wild oats.

Don't waste your time as a 21 year old worrying about this girls shitty tendencies. This is who she is at this stage of her life, shit isn't about to change in the near future anyways. Plus, she'll get over it.

If you are itching to use all of this PUA info and find yourself doing it unconsciously...well you know where your head is at. Don't fight it and mash some oats.

Don't move to Malaysia.

Uprooting your entire life for a woman is so dumb and you'd be handing her your balls because she would be your crutch in an alien place, you would need her for so much.

Take it from me, I stayed with an American ex girlfriend in New Jersey (I'm English.) I just got on her nerves because it was harder for me to be a man, do my own thing and take the initiative.