Hey guys,

Looking for some advice on my current situation. I'm a junior in college and I've been ****ing this girl for a little over a month now and she stays over at my house a couple times per week. We've had sex around 20 times, we go out to parties, out to eat, watch movies together, etc. This is the most intimate I've ever been with a girl so far in college & the last time I had an official girlfriend was in highschool. I haven't been with any other girls since I started ****ing/hanging out with her and I'm pretty sure she hasn't been with any other guys but I could be wrong. We kiss eachother goodbye in public and text eachother daily. Also, she's a freshman, I'm a junior which makes me feel a little weird but she is mature for her age.

Here are some questions I have:

How do you go about making it "official" when you're already having sex on a regular basis? Do I straight up ask her to be my girlfriend? lol

How can you tell the difference between a "friends with benefits" relationship and a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship?

Is it beta to wait for the girl to ask about taking the relationship further?


Is there anything I should definitely avoid doing that would **** things up?


Anything else that you think might guide me on the right path would be appreciated.

WTF?!?!? What's weird about having sex with a college freshman? Never mind...

But it sounds like you're the only one that doesn't know it's official.

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Bump.. I'd really appreciate some other replies on this

Wait for her to ask ... and game other girls since you guys are not exclusive yet ! Use the vibe you get of having a girl ready to fuck you to game other girls ... this vibe is abundance and will get you more girls ... start looking for better girls than the one you have ... then build your harem of girls O_O!

MUAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

Seriously ... try it out ...

Donston

This is great advice. She said she's down to do 3 somes too sooo maybe.. just maybe, I'll find another girl who is also down to do threesomes so I can check that one off my bucketlist

She'll ask you when she's ready... It's her way of saying "stop fucking other girls".

I agree with everyone here who says wait for HER to make it official.

In the meantime just work on being an attractive male. It's the woman's job to realize where the relationship is going. We become more convinced of things when we believe the thing was our own idea.