Hi guys something is bothering me so thought maybe you guys can give some good advice.

I been seeing this girl for over 2 months and we have had sex. On valentines day I decided if things go well I will have the boyfriend/girlfriend talk with her... So I took her on a very romantic date, flowers, other little presents, and dinner date. After at her place things got heated and we were kissing/touching but I had to go because I had to work early so couldn't have sex that day. anyway So I stoped and had the talk with her and basically told her:

ME--- I want you to be my girl, will you be my girl ?

Her--- Do I have to answer now ? or can I think about it ? (she said it in a cute/nice way )

Me--- I said I said my part so sure if you want think about it... and let me know later( I wanted her to tell me but I didn't wanna pressure her, but its kinda stupid we are already like boyfriend/girlfriend anyways, she has introduced me to her friends,and recently agreed to meet my parents etc too. )


so its been a few days and she hasn't said anything about it? You would think a girl or guy should know if they want you as a boyfriend girlfriend after 2 months talk/text/dating been on 10 dates, had sex.

So what the fuck is going on ? am I being played ? is she scared of relationships even though she says she wants a serious one, marriage/kids etc ? am I the wrong guy, maybe she doesn't have strong feelings for me and wants to give it more time to see if they develop ??

she has told me she really likes me but doesn't feel the fire yet once, and that she usually takes long to get to know someone before jumping into an actual relationship. So basically we are exclusivily dating with no real boyfriend/girlfriend label yet.

What do you guys think, whats the best action I should take ? thx in advance!

Whatever you do, STOP thinking about it and do not bring it up again or pressure her or hint that her indecisiveness bothers you. Keep doing what you're doing, keep fucking her well and it will happen barring some unforeseen circumstances.

Two months can be a bit quick I guess, don't sweat it and don't become needy or clingy or affected by this.

RO hit the nail on the head there.. especially if she's liking the sex, eventually she'll fall.

I recommend that after sex you get her to open up emotionally so that she bonds to you.. however much she opens up to you, match it but don't exceed it.

If you're already getting balls deep, then this gives you a chance to get into her mind during sex. she'll be more open to suggestions that you "own" her pussy etc etc. I recommend reading The Sex God Method for details on this... really, if you're bedding her then you can take it where you want to imo.

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Yea I know I shouldn't think about it but in past relationships girls would fall in love fast lol and I was the one playing hard to get and never labeled anything till they asked so am I your girlfriend or other bs lol. Its just this girl is so different from all others in the past and its a pride thing too... like I rather dump a girl vs finding out I got played or used by them lol. Anyways thx a lot guys for all the info.

If she wants to be your gf she'll show it through behavior. Never force it as that's just pressuring the person to make a decision and it'll always come out of the wrong energy to which you'll both pay for later on (she'll hold it against you when she's upset you'll hear about it in time).