Hey there, guys! =D

So, I'm 14 (yeah, one of those young chodes seeking advice) and I'm in a relationship with a 15 year old girl. we go to different schools, and we're neighbors.

The rest is just some background info. The last paragraph is where I'll write the problem, so skip on down if you don't like background details.

In person, we always have good laughs. We go to school together, so I see her 5-6 times a week including the weekends. She's gone cold through text though, but I understand because she is having family problems (mom treats her like shit.)

We haven't seen each other for 4 days, Valentine's included. I bugged her to come but she still declined. I would have called her out for this, but right now, she's going through some family problems and she's a very troubled girl (I know we're all supposed to stay away from these girls, but I really do love this girl. Haha).

So, when I knew she really wouldn't agree, I just sent a text saying "Okay. I get it. Happy Valentine's."

Later that night, we started chatting and I asked her what time she would come the next day because my mom asked her to bake with us. She said she couldn't go, so I called her out on this one, telling her that when she makes plans with me, she should stick by it, because it's disappointing. Then I moved on to a new fun topic.
Then I didn't text her for 1 day because I was busy. Then the next day (which is today), I chat her up and our conversation went like this:

10:21
-Me: Morning, babe =) I feel like going out. Wanna come with?
11:06
-Me:Nvm. going out with friends instead. Have a nice day, dear. Please eat well.
11:33
-*She sends a group message*
11:40
-Me: Awww. No reply. alrighty.
11:47
-Her: You were like nvm.. so meh.. and i just woke up
11:49
-Me: I'd just appreciate a reply one in a while.. Especially if you have time and load for a gm. =) So, how was yesterday? I saw that you had sushi with Jerycko. You have to take me one time! =)
11:50
-Her: Well, mom forced me to go out despite me being sick. She wanted me to bring our printer to his dad. We just sorta hanged out and it lightened my mood
11:51
-Me: Wow... I can't believe she did that even though you were sick. Well at least Jerycko was there to lighten your mood. =) *some lame shit right here*

*let me skip to the part where I fucked up*

Me: Yo, next time we go to school together, point out your stalker. I'mma kick his ass.

Her: I gotta go to school early from now.. I got stuff to do in the morning

Me: Let's go early then. Haha... come on.

Her: :s

Me: Awww. It seems like you don't wanna see me, huh?

Her: No ._. I just gotta rush things.

Me: Then we'll go early =)

Her: :X its fine

Me: i wanna.
Me: I wasn't with you one valentine's... I'd at least wanna be with you during our monthsary.

Her:... okay.. fine.

Me: Ah... It seems you don't really like being with me. Haha. Look, you're there for me when I need you and your love is unquestionable, but lately, you've been cold towards me, and it just disappoints me.

Her: Who said that I don't like being with you? No one fucking did say that. You just start assuming that I am. You don't seem to understand how I feel with all this shit. So shut your fucking trap if you really don't.

Me: I'm sorry... i didn't mean to hurt your feelings. I understand what you're going through...
Me: Oh god, I feel like an ass now.

*2 hours later*
Me: Hmmm... I guess you're right. I don't understand how you feel right now.
Me: It wasn't my intention to hurt your feelings though, so I'm sorry. Well, I know you don'ta wanna hear from me right now, so I'm gonna go. Again, sorry.

End of Convo.


So, I know I made some mistakes during the convo (text game sucks. Girls are ballsier through text... Fuck phones. Haha!). How do I recover?

I know that the post is disorganized, but any help would be appreciated.
Thanks in advance.

Damn bro...this sounds crucial...what I would do is...leave her alone

for like one day or so...and then try to text her whats up. But try not

to talk about anything involving her problems and whatnot man.

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Okay, that was really bad, but don't be hard on yourself, you're only fourteen.

Should have left her to reinitiate after she bailed on you.

Yeah really bad but you're 14. Sounds like she isn't really into you, by her texts and the fact she hasn't seen you despite being neighbours.

Well, if the info helps, we were together for 7 months, we broke up, and she came back to me after. We took each other's virginity btw.

Oh... Thanks, guys. But I fucked up right after that. Haha. I didn't wait for an answer, so when she sent a group message saying how happy she was (she finally got the book she wanted), I texted her.

Me: Hey there. You're in a good mood right now. That's Awesome! =)
Her: Meh
Me: So, will I still see you tomorrow?
Her: Nah
Me: Alright. If you don't wanna, it's fine with me. Why though?
Her: I need to print stuff.
Me: Haha. alrighty. You have to make it up to me though.
Her: Make it up to you, huh? I wonder about the times you did that for me when I felt like shit.
Me: Hey, don't take things so seriously. Haha. I was kidding... I think we need to talk about this though, I'm gonna call you.
*I call her, she doesn't pick up.*
Her: No
Her: My favorite song is playing
Her: Don't worry, I'll be fine in a few days.
*I'm kinda pissed right now, so I end up sending this text*
Me: Babe, I don't like drama... Haha. Whenever I try to be there for you, you never give me the chance. I mean, I love you, and I really do care for you, but if you never give me the chance, then how do you expect me to show it? I love you, and I try to show it. I will always be there for you, but if you don't appreciate my efforts, then I guess I have to rethink things between us. Don't hesitate to come to me with your problems, I have no problems listening. I love you, dear.
Her: Neither do I. I'm not the kind of person to just go to anyone about my problems. I you don't wanna be with me know, and that you're regretting. Well it was nice knowing that you cheated on me you bastard.
*I call her*
So, talk was full of drama and shit, and I acted ACF saying things like "It hurts to know that the one girl I chose to give a hundred percent of my heart to isn't even sure of her feelings anymore, just because other people tell her lies about me." and "I love you, I hope you know that."

She said things like "My friends say that you're just fooling me, and that I should break up with you, and I'm thinking maybe I should." and "I'm not even sure if I still love you. A part of me says yes, and a part of me says no.

So, during the conversation, I remembered self-control, and I took a deep breath just to think about what's happening right now. Then suddenly, I went "Shhh. Look, we're gonna be okay. This is just one of those petty fights. You're just saying that you don't love me because you're going through a lot of things right now. Let's leave this fight behind, okay? I love you."

She said "Yeah, okay."

So, later that night, I say that she sent me a text during our call. The first one said "Np. How dare you. I know that when you confessed that you cheated during our first relationship, I was over it... But it still hurts because I trusted you. I loved you so fucking much. How can you explain all the lies you told me? Tell me."

So, right now, she's not really receptive to anything through text.

This morning, I sent her a text saying "Good morning! Happy Monthsary, dear. I hope you enjoy your day"

She waited until the end of school to reply with a cold "Happy Monthsary"

What do you think I should do, guys? I plan on going NC for a day or two just to make her miss me a bit (not sure if it'll work because her last memories of me are of a stupid fight. ) then ask her to go to school on Thursday (My mom can't bring her car out on Thrusdays. Number coding. Haha).

I think that the two things I need to do to fix things between us is just to show her I care, and fuck her harder than any of the other times I've fucked her (it's gonna be hard to top any of them though... Haha!)

Or, if you guys have any other advice, that would be most appreciated.

Thank you in advance! You guys are awesome! =D

Stop texting so much, let her initiate contact next time. It's hard but that's what I would do

^^this

and stop pushing her. It does not necesarilly mean NC, but hell, if she responds with "nah" "ok" "yeh" and you start telling her all those things including AFC crap it is not good.
If she does not want to communicate or do something, take a step back, not a step forward.

Haha yeah man I would just say move on bro.

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Thanks, guys. =)

Jesus, there should be age limit on these forums.

I'm serious. The advice on here is not for 14 year olds. How can we justify underage sex? People could get arrested for this shit.

To the OP: Enjoy your childhood and stop worrying about girls. Wait til you're 17.

Haha I agree. The minute you get interested in women. Your life changes.

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