I've got this FWB that I have been messing around with since July, we are good friends and co-workers, we are partners at work so nexting this girl is a bad idea. This why I put this in the relationship forum, because I need solutions that don't involve getting her out of my life completely.

Alright ill keep this short, the girl gets around. It's never bothered me, but its starting to. I have fostered a really honest relationship with this chick, we have always talked about our past partners and sexual escapades, I always thought it was really cool we could have this dynamic. But lately I find myself obsessing about her other partners, I look them up on FB, im curious about who they are...

I don't really get jealous, it's more like a compulsive curiosity... Maybe deep down im nervous that one of them will replace me or something (insecurities maybe?).. Regardless she is on my mind much much more than I am comfortable with. Frankly, the sexual portion of our relationship has kind of run its course, I have more fun just hanging out these days. If we didn't have to work together id probably just next the girl...

I'm looking for advice, ideas, mental tools, ect. to ease obsessing thoughts.

Thanks.

You've caught feelings for her, it's only normal.

You can choose to broach the subject with her, sus things out as to where she stands. If she's not rel material for you then I suggest distance yourself for your own protection, maybe finding a new FWB or your hand.