So I got a brief(around 3 hrs) date with this chick the night before her flight back to her city.
There was attraction right way as she never left after I opened her when I first met her. Our date/time together was short but it was an absolutely amazing experience. I have never bonded so much with a girl in such a brief amount of time and yeah, we make out/ fool around , and just not the home run as she was on the trip here with her sister. She seemed very ideal to my liking.As the guy, I paid for the dinner/date, and she offered to pay her share back too. This is big with me as it means she's comfortable with herself and was a real turn-on for me. SO to summarize, we clicked like crazy and she was over me as I was over her.

I kind of said a bit too much toward the end saying next time, the loser(teasing her) will have to buy ice cream. She is really into going after her goal and I told her I don't intend to lose my sight of mine either so we made that kiddie wager haha. I hope that comment didn't leave a seed for her to remember me more.

I told her to e-mail me back when she got home and she has. She has already mentioned so many times that if I were to go to S. AMerica that I let her know and if I'm going to her city, she'll do/cook/etc. for me. I think she likes me more than I do her, but would it be unfair to both of us if we were to remain close? I mean she's from S. America and I'm in NYC. Given that, we're not going to see each other for some time or ever, should I just have a courteous response back to her and that's all. Don't know what's my move here as I don't want her to get too attached and the same goes for me. She was a memorable one to me and I am to her( she told me to keep being myself, many people will love you for that.)

I'm thinking about her repeatedly and was wondering what course of action I should take. All comments appreciated.

She was a 8.5 in my books( rating of 2 in personality, face,body, ass,legs). Yeah, I'm picky , so perhaps I'm just feeling like crap due to my date frequency being lower than some people.

Funny note, we met all because of a fallen hanger....

It is very normal to be attached, after you had a positive dating/love experience.

I have had similar experiences. I would have a great night with a HB, but due to external circumstances, we could not continue seeing each other. The best thing to do is to get out and sarge. It sounds stupid, but it does. The nice thing about situations like this, is that the girl can always forgive you. Believe it or not, the distance and impossibility of a relationship, can actually be quite comforting. Especially to the girl.

I still stay in touch with about 6 to 8 girls, where I had an experience like this. Usually the live far away. When I am single, I always try to plan little vacations and get togethers, without any attachement of the outcome. It's like creating a mental holiday with "a special person" without all the fuss of having to get to know each others downsides, families, stupid friends and collegues, etc.

So enjoy your feelings, and use your grief to tell yourself that you are alive, grownup with healthy emotions. And take it with you as you sarge. Women will indeed love you for it, so the girl was not shitting you when she said that.

Hope this helps. I was actually glad to read you post, because I was always kind of annoyed by this kinds of "fate" questions, but I guess I have come to peace with it lately.

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