Hello,
Today me and my girlfriend hung out almost all day but I noticed she was really upset, she would not tell me no matter how much I asked. She is visiting her grandmother for a week with her parents and when I got home I texted her "Now will you tell me what's going on?"
My girlfriend found out that I was one of those guys that can't have a girl be in the room without me being all nice and flirty. I admitted to her that I was one of those guys but I also told her I have changed, I am not that guy anymore. I told her that I was under the influence of a friend (who seemed to get any girl he wanted), and that looking back at it now I realized how playful and childish I was.
I am not that guy anymore, after meeting her I completely changed.
She was just so marvelous and wonderful that it woke me up and made me realized how much of a womanizer I was (no sex though).
Me and her have been talking for about 5 months and I only recently asked her out about 2 weeks ago.
She deleted me off of facebook and deleted any status she posted on my wall.
I have no idea what to do except text her once again.
However I think it's her choice to make now, not mine.
But I was thinking of texting her "Hey, I understand you're angry with me, but not for one second think that my love for you is fake."
Can anyone help me out? :/

Shit man she sounds exceptionally pissed if she went through the trouble of deleting you off facebook but I think the text you are thinking of sending would work perfectly but just add something about you would really love to talk to her on the phone or in person to truly explain your self. hope all works out for you.

Echo

Girl sounds like she has made up her mind. But all this just happened today? She may just need a cooldown.

Some people can't handle guys with a flirty, active past. She could be be one them.

If she's straight up not replying to your messages or answering your calls why not give her some space? Few weeks to cool down and miss you and then try again,

May be a lost cause but you're getting nowhere currently.

Lol, she's mad at "nice and flirty" and no sex? How old are you 2? Gotta be under 17

I called her three times last night, did not pick up. I texted her on SPAM 10 minutes after and told her "Don't ever take my love as fake & I would love to explain myself, etc..
She texted back and said "No one is stopping you."
Since she wouldn't pick up her phone I decided to just text it to her, I told her everything I felt and how she has changed me.
It's morning and no reply, she definitely read it because it's on SPAM and it tells me when the person has used the app.
I don't know what to do now, except text her one more time, just one more...
"You're furious with me, I get that, and I feel terrible :/"
"Once again, I'm sorry. I won't bother you again."

I've only said sorry once, with this one it'll be two times.
I was hoping she would understand and accept me for who I am now and not for who I was...
She gets so much attention it's crazy, she's very very beautiful and has a down to earth personality so I can understand why she is upset about this subject.
I am now just waiting for her to break up with me because right now I am not getting anywhere except further back. & let me tell you, when she breaks up with me I am going to be devastated, I have never in my life met a woman like her, I feel extremely lucky to have her, but hey! Isn't that AFC talk right there? Oh well, it's how I am feeling right now...
I am very open to criticism, so please go ape mode if you have to.

Dude, you haven't done anything wrong. WTF are you apologizing for?

Seriously - you weren't with her when you were doing this shit...

What you just did with the texting - completely wrong.

You have no power. She has all of it - and she knows it.

Stop contact. Give it some time.

This is high school shit.

I'm saying sorry because I upset her, but I already said it once I guess I don't have to say it again.
I understand the text thing was wrong because it was OVER text not phone or in person (realized this after I sent it), but can you give me your view on why it was wrong?

I personally think it was wrong to do on text OR phone... cause you didn't do anything wrong. If your actions before she met you are a problem to her, then they're HER problem, not yours.

By apologizing for not doing anything wrong, groveling and acted completely needy and like a bitch you give her the power. She can do with you as she pleases.

Now that I look back at it, I did give her all the power...Fuck.
If anything I could of just said "That's not me anymore" And left it at that, but nope. I decided to send her damn paragraphs about blahblahblah...
I see my mistake, I will cut contact and give it some time as you suggested.

cutting contact would be a good idea. the only thing that I see a problem with is that you two are actually in a relationship, so you should cut contact but only for 2-3 days if it goes on any longer than that then you should try to contact her again and re evaluate your guys relationship as to whether or not stay together.

Echo

Trust me, dump this chick. You sound really hurt and stressed out about this. You did nothing wrong and your past isn't even bad. You FLIRTED with girls before you met her. She is hurting you needlessly just because she is hurt. She doesn't care about you. If she did she would give you some response, some respect. You hurting, vulnerable, she knows and she doesn't care. When a girl acts like this, its a sign that she will hurt you just because she is hurt. What will happen if you get back and something else happens? She'll hurt you. Move on from this chick and consider yourself lucky.

Before I consider doing this, she replied.
She tells me she is upset with the fact that she was just a +1 to me, that I had been flirting with all these girls and she was just one of them where if I got them I would keep going further with them. Basically a "Yes! Got this one!"
I can't seem to prove to her that I am not like that anymore, she just thinks I am lying.
Again I sent her a fucking paragraph, might as well kick me in the balls for this.
I am just worsening this situation than it already is, but I guess I'll learn for making these stupid mistakes.
Sorry for my ignorance, it must be killing you guys..

EDIT: It ended like this "there was nothing I could do except tell you everything"
Her: well I'm going to to sleep, its the best thing I can do.. have a good night.
Me: Sleep well angel ^___^.

I have said so much unecessary shit because she was not doubting my feelings or whatever (which I kept texting her about).
I'm going to cut contact for two days or three as suggested by Echo unless she texts/calls me first.
I am face palming so hard at myself, ughh!

the good thing is that u know the kind of mistakes your doing.
the bad thing is that u keep on doing them.
the only way that u can fix this is by speaking to her in person.in every other way shes gonna ignore you.
and you shud be doing it quickly.
please dont be so needy,there a lot of girls in the world which have the skilss u say,i used to date a same description girl when i was young,and when she broke up with me at first i was like you(oh shes the best thing ever happened and what im gonna do,i will never find a same one) but now looking backwards,im thankful of that relationship ending,and after i got over emotions i just understood that the girl was just a typical girl nothing special it was just my feeling who was blinding me.
we are young and we should live and experience.every obstacle is for the better.

I realize my emotions are taking over me. Telling her she I changed thanks to her and how marvelous she is, etc. Is being needy correct? What else besides the damn paragraphs, am I doing that is considered as needy?

Dude. I mean duuude. First of all she is immature. You did nothing wrong. At this point if I were you I wouldn't even say a word to her. At all. This is basically her problem to sort out.
What is needy is that you are not willing to walk if she doesn't change her behaviour. Tell her this "Baby I understand you are upset but I did nothing wrong. If that's how you are going to act it's fine by me but then look for someone else who can tolerate it. Bye..."