So to sum up a super long story i went out on two dates with this girl who just moved to my side of town. After those two dates she stopped respond to my text for about a month and a half. I remember her birthday and gave her a gift in the mail. The next day she texted me saying she wanted to meet up. I went to her house and we cuddled up next to each other. She didn't want to kiss me and said that she didn't want to hook up with her best friend. About twenty minutes later we ended up hooking up. The sex was pretty damn good.

Anyways she is still extremely flakey when it comes to hanging out. She text me hours after i text her. I thought by having sex we would be closer but everything is still so distant.

My question is how can i become closer to this girl so we can eventually have a relationship?