hey guys, new to the site so if this is in the wrong place i apologize.

been with this girl now for about 5 months and im hooked on her something shocking, but now shes gone ahead and played the "i dont know if im ready for a serious relationship" card so i was wondering if anyone has any ideas on how to win her over. im trying to do the right thing and give her space and i have for the past month or so but im getting to the point where mabye i should just move on or not, problem is tho i don't want to. any idea's?

Hey man, you could tell her that you are enjoying her company and that you do not feel the need to define things with her as in "we are in a relationship", this should get her to loosen up with regards to "not being ready"... no woman spends five months with a guy and does not want to be in a relationship with him... this is just her testing you (women will do that for their whole lives) even if at an unconscious level, to see what kind of guy you are... you don't need to do anything special about keeping her, just be an interesting and fun guy and she'll want to be with you... avoid becoming the clingy boyfriend that women are running away from... be the MAN and she will stay with you...