I have been with my current gf a year and was single for 18months working on being the best pua I could.

Recently my ex has popped into my head and the thoughts have been hard to shake. I find myself comparing this relationship to my last.

This leaves me wanting more. Current GF is a HB8 with the ex being a HB10. Sex is not as good (could this be emotional) and the level of conversation generally is not as stimulating.

The current relationship is a lot easier than my last where the push and pull dynamic was extreme. My new gf is 8 years younger than the last and 6 years younger than me.

Is there anything I can do to improve this relationship? Or does the sense of mediocraty need to be addressed? At times I am tempted to cheat. My game is still good, my gf often comments that other woman make comments to her about wanting to do me etc.

Any suggestions? Questions?

Hey man, you are comparing relationships because you are, for lack of a better word, human... you mentioned three criteria where the former GF beat the current one... looks, sex and conversation... are there any criteria where the current is beating the former?

There is a line I use (calling it the ex-BF destroyer) when my targets start praising their exes... I ask them "If they were so great, why are you not seeing each other anymore?" think of the reasons why your ex-GF is no longer part of your life... the mind plays a dirty trick on us, some time (months or even years) after a break-up, we forget the shitty part and remember the good times only... makes sense that we want to preserve good memories and not become embittered by the trauma of the past...

so, start looking for reasons why you should be together with your current GF... if there are none, then you know what to do...

You made some good points Redlight.

The new gf has much more to offer than the last one. The last relationship ended badly, a miscarriage among other things.

My ex wanted a yes man and the new gf just let's me be me. I could never be a yes man. I suppose it's the challenge I had with a high maintenance ex that in some twisted way I enjoyed.

Coming home to dominate a high powered HB10, Man Handel so to speak.

I'm into my current gf so I better let go of the past so I can enjoy the present.