Some recent happenings in my life have got me thinking. My live in GF of 4 years and I broke up two Satudays ago, she brought it up, but it was mutal. The night before Thanksgiving (4 days later) I hook up with one of my flirtatious friends, and am now pursing somthing with her.

First, it was nice to see that I still got the game in me after 4 years with the same girl, no cheating. Second, it showed me the power of maintaining what i decided to coin as flirtatious friendships (FF's).

If things are rocky with your current LTR, or you just like to have fun and aren't a scumbag that cheats, then your next best option is starting a few FF's. It gives you instant options if things in your LTR dont work out, or at least gives you perspective about your curent girl while also maintaining yor high value status.

So how do you go about this? Well all of these FF's in my case are just women I found attractive that are in my social circle or in my life in general (School, work, etc...) Im not going out and activly sarging women, although I imagine you could. I just get these women attracted to me as you would any, if you dont know how, ur in the wrong forum, and maintaining communication with them whether its though social media, texting, and or hanging out with the group. Just keep their BT in check and look like you are an awesome BF, they will only be more attracted to you. In fact i plan on hooking up with another one as soon as she get back into town.
Also keep in mind these are not ugos, all HB8-10, it helps my now ex-gf with an HB8.5 which is nice social proof.

So get out there and keep your options open so you aren't boohoo'n when you and your girl split, you dont have to be a scumbag to keep your girl in check and women on the line. Plus it makes it loads easier to GFTO when you do break up

- Bezy