THE GIRL:
a HB9 she a really fun outgoing girl (age 20) but she is a little cold and i quote "doesn't fall in love easily"

THE SITUATION
i met this girl a few months ago at a party, she was the most beautiful girl at that party, i approached her and her friends with my wingman and played the tightest game i have ever played, i went on a date with her 2 days later and have been dating ever since but i have temporary moved to a different country and i only see her once week per month i text her almost every day and call her every week

THE PROBLEM
- she feel really cold sometimes, i have met her parents and she introduces me to her friends as her boyfriend but sometimes it doesn't feel like im in a relationship for instance we haven't had sex and when i text her it takes long for her to respond(and her text are really superficial, not sharing feelings and all).
In the beginning i thought it would get better and in a way it does but way slower than i would like.
I tried every trick in the book but nothing warms her up really (i kino allot, slapping her ass, pulling her hair when we are making out, some sexual wordplay, kissing her in the neck). Each time i see her things are going great but when im away its like she isn't even my girlfriend
-she ask me to text her every day but i have to carry the entire conversation and often don't know what to say (i don't want to give a boring summary of my day each day) does anybody know nice text openers something like "i hope your sexy ass is having a great day" "i wish you where here but there are strict import regulations regarding hot redheads" just so i have some variation in how i start a conversation
-she says she likes nice guys, but how nice can you be without ending up as that nice guy who got stuck in the friendzone (for instance if she suggest an activity and you don't really have anything to do, do you do what se suggest all the time or do you sometimes say no just to make a point)

ADDITIONAL INFORMATION
-she only has had one relationship before me and only kissed 2 guys before me (so she might but considered a prude)
-i have talked to her about her being cold (not in those words obviously) and she said she really likes me but doesn't fall in love easily and that i just have to have patience with her
-she might be a little worried that im a player (she asked me a few times how many girls i have slept with and all)(but i hope that has nothing to do with her being cold)

seriously after all this time and all these views not even one reply

let me make it easy for you and break it down
can anybody give me some tips on the following subject

-anyway to escalate physically (with a girl you are already in a relationship with) (i already tried allot of kino, whispering naughty tings in her ear, hair pulling and kissing in the neck al got good results but didn't lead to sex)

- what to text your girlfriend while in another country (aside from boring stuff about your day)

-a girl says she likes nice guys how do you react (do you need to be bad sometimes just to make a point and avoid a fall into the friendzone(is it even possible to fall back into the friendzone from your girlfriend)

LDRs don't workout is the best advice I can give you OP.

well that is quite depressing.
so what you are saying that if the odds are against you, you should automatically give up?
im only going to be abroad for another few months
i have noticed in a few other post that the most common solution being proposed is to just give up

I have an LDR but she is only 2.5 hours' drive away so I see her either every other weekend or every weekend.

There is always the chance that she will cheat on me. I just make sure the time I do spend with her is always really sexy and full of memories. Fuck her silly, make her cum hard, look deep into her eyes. Cum all over her.

The more sex you have, the closer she will feel to you.

thx for the tip i always make our time together fun en memorable
unfortunately we do not have had sex together any tips on how to escalate physically (she kinda shy so don't suggest anything that an average girl might find shocking)

Ok. Now everything makes sense.

She is "cold" because you havent made a move on her. "I dont fall in love easily" translated into English means "i want you to take charge and fuck me... Don't get your hopes up for a relationship she's not your girlfriend. No sex = No relationship .

for fuck sake say something specific
define "make a move"
i tried everything short from trowing her on a bed and pulling of her pants (and i have no intention of doing that because that will backfire if you do that on girls that are not ready for sex)

Eye contact. Kiss. Eye contact. Touch. Eye contact. Undress. Eye contact. Put her hand on your cock. Then --》Sex.

Actually throwing her on the bed and pulling off her pants is 100% better than what you are doing now, which is NOTHING.

Women love sex. Read that again. WOMEN LOVE SEX. They want a guy who can fuck them hard and lead in the bedroom. If you don't give it to them, they will find another guy who will.