I went out for drinks with her and two friends of ours. I ended up talking to her and our friends started talking to each other. She asked if I have a girlfriend. When I went with her to the bar for shots she asked if I have a girlfriend and I told her the truth: I broke up with my ex two weeks ago. I asked her the same and she said it is complicated. And she said that there is a problem and that is that we are assuming that the other is in a relationship. When she had to be home she sat next to me in the cab and her girlfriend took the front seat. She touched my dry perm and ran her fingers through it and when we arrived she said: I love you Ronald; kissed her hand and placed it on my lips and then hugged me. Two days later she texted: Hey you... hope you're well hun.

Prior to the hour of going out she kept reiterating that she did not want to overburden me. She said she felt like she was overburdening me (even though I was the one who asked her out). She was very conscious of how I was spending. I could see it in her eyes.

I also noted she has a tendency to say my name out of the blue in almost a subconscious sounding tone. She lets me touch her anywhere. And she once remarked that I am her knight in shining armour. She also likes walking with me our hands hooked onto each other.

The thing is I am certain I want a serious relationship with her because we have a friendship and we have 'that' on top. Do you think she likes me too and do you have any suggestions. I need your help

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MindFvck

She's going out with you, touches you, etc. She is ripe for the picking. Take it, before she begins to wonder why you aren't.

When she talks about overburdening, that is her fishing to see where she stands with you. She's looking for confirmation that you want her with you. Next time she does this, tell her you'll decided when and if she's overburdening you in any way, and you'll let her know. Tell her to date, you've just enjoyed your time together. Good move is to cement this statement with a kiss.

I would try to escalate soon. If you aren't communicating your interest in her physically soon, her interest will wear off and you'll be friend zoned.

When we go out next to the same bar I am going to escalate my kino and close with a kiss. But isn't the overburdening statement also a means of her trying to establish a sense of power before the relationship has begun.

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MindFvck

When we go out next to the same bar I am going to escalate my kino and close with a kiss. Thank you very much! But isn't the overburdening statement also a means of her trying to establish a sense of power before the relationship has begun? And also are there any DVD sets and/or books that you recommend regarding this type of situation because the Mystery Method seems exclusive of the concept of a relationship? It is basically a build up towards enough comfort to bang which can be done without a relationship (from experience).

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MindFvck

No, it's not a shit test. A shit test is when she does something basically wrong, with the intent to test your response. Her saying repeatedly she doesn't want to impose is not wrong. It is her fishing to see where she stands with you. She is expressing interest.

You can fail 2 ways. 1, you gush and tell her you love her and she's everything you ever wanted and she says, WTF I hardly know you. The other is that you are a complete pussy and cannot make a move when she gives you all sorts of signals.

The bottom line is she is interested. When she says this, project that you are in control of your schedule, your emotions, and how you want to spend your time and money. And right now, you've chosen to be with her. This will make her feel like you reciprocate interest, and she is lucky that you do. Finish it with some physical expression of that, or someone else is gonna sweep her right away from you.