Been interested in game for some time now. Havn't had a relationship in the last couple of years and have been working on myself.

Lately I have found I have no interest in going out so much now. I hate wasting days through drinking, i hate being around drunk people. I would rather be bettering myself. Lacks on meeting woman, however, i feel as though I am at a stage where I can meet woman if i want to, then work on that.

Recently I went out with some friends, and there was a girl in the group, I didn't even notice her, wouldn't go out of my way talking to her, but she came to me and we had a laugh, got on well. She was seeing someone at the time, so having messaged her a few times, i though to myself, Im not her friend. I got better things to do.

Last week she told me she wasn't seeing this guy anymore, and I happened to be going out last week which was pre planned. She was out aswell, and we ended up getting with each other all night.

I think shes a nice girl, shes a few years younger, but was saying to me she doesnt like going out so much, she just goes as her friends do, but she wants more of a bf.

Ever since, we have been texting, and I asked her if she wanted to do something, she said she would talk to her friends and get back to me, since we have been texting, which she replies instantly, and long texts, however she isn't great at making the convo flow.

She still hasn't got back to me on the us doing something, however she was asking me if I was going to an event this week, which I said no as I really dont want to go, but it seems as though shes interested in seeing me "out clubbing".

Iv been texting her today, trying to build some rapport a bit, but it doesnt (to me) seem to be working due to its me asking questions and getting long answers back that go nowhere. Or she just asks me the same thing back

My friend said just freeze her out for 3 days and then text her again telling her that I want to go cinema, and say, do you wanna come?

Anyone got any thoughts?

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You have already slept with this girl, no need to continue building strong rapport due to attraction and comfort being well established. In the mean time stop chasing her, stop useless texting, do not leave your frame (i.e. clubbing with her), and call her on the phone and ask her out on a date. You are now leaving pick up behind and entering dating.

This shit really isn't that complicated.

1) stop having long text conversations with her. They don't build attraction, they kill it actually. be the one who she is thinking about when you are apart, not the guy who is constantly texting her about mundane shit.

2). The fastest way to make someone your gf is to have a lot of sex with her. Not going to the cinema or he amusement park or to fancy dinners or even clubbing. You can do all that after you guys have been sleeping together constantly and built a real rapport through sex, not a fake rapport through text.

3). That being said, your game plan should be to have a lot of sex with her. Taking her to the cinema is a step backwards. Having long text conversations without any concrete plans puts you in LjBF category. Asking someone if "they wanna do something" isn't LEADING.

4). Tell her you just got a great bottle of wine you need someone to share with you. Or meet her out in a cute little wine bar near your place (tell her to park at your house and you'll go together in one car - then when you get back invite her in for another drink). And you do this not by saying "you wanna do this sometime?" But by saying, "I'm going to xyz on Thursday night, let me know if you'd like to join". If she makes an excuse then reply "what night are you free then?" Then just shut up until she gives you a night. If she can't give you a concrete night ignore her and go after other girls. If she comes back and wants your attention again, don't have long text convos with her, only use txt to get her to meet you ASAP and seduce her in person through eye contact and kino.

shit your right.

I feel as though iv been out the game for a while now, and you just made me realise.

One problem that I always have is.... When I go out, and get drunk, i seem to make out with 5-10 girls a night. Get numbers etc... But as soon as I text, they rarly text back or ever want to meet up.

Building a bit more rapport would be better i guess, but should I have done this more at the club? Or should I just say to a girl,im going for drinks Thursday, would you like to join me?

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She is also going out tonight, and wanted me to go,thing is,, i really dont want to, so thought i would be better off not chasing the girls, chase the money instead.

Good decision? In the passed I have gone out just to see girls, and some times you get pissed off etc... and I figured that was my bitch self.

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