Last night I slept with an absolutely beautiful, Caribbean princess of a girl that I picked up last thursday. However, she told me that she had never had sex before just when things were hotting up. I'm not a dick and her vulnerability made me melt a little and I told her we didn't have to do anything if she didn't feel ready. After a bit of hesitation she told me she wanted to and asked me to put on a condom and we had gentle, straightforward sex because I wanted to make it as comfortable as possible. Perhaps I shouldn't have done it, but she is honestly a 9.5 and she wanted me.

Now, I'm about six weeks out of a relationship and I wasn't planning on any commitment or anything for a while. However, I've taken this girls virginity and she is beautiful and really sweet and I firmly believe that you can't just take a girl's virginity lightly and then tell her to fuck off, it's just not good behaviour. Leave her better than when you found her right?

She's going traveling for two months around Europe from January, so what do you think is best? Is it likely her attachment to me will lessen over the two months she goes traveling? Don't get me wrong, I'm perfectly open to giving things a go if we both want to... But I would much rather take things slow and if we both want to be together when she gets back from traveling then so be it.

I have no intention of needlessly hurting her by sleeping with loads of different women, but I can't really rush headlong into a full-on intense relationship and I'm hoping her travel plans will keep her realistic for now.

You shouldn't be telling us how you feel about this, but you should be telling her.

Tell her you got caught up by her hotness and really wanted it, but tell her you are bugged by the fact that she is travelling and that you doubt her monogomy and your own.

No matter what you do in situations like this, the more honesty and information you give the girl, the more she will respect you in the end. And more importantly the more you will respect YOURSELF!!!

So communicate and let her know how you feel and how you stand on things. Let her deciede what she wants for you. Taking a girls virginity creates a very strong bond, stronger then how men feel it. THink about that...

greetz

Buccaneer

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I could not tread these perilous paths in safety, if I did not keep a saving sense of humor. -Admiral Horatio Nelson

Agreed on the honesty statement above.

Give her the truth. Let her determine her own fate.

Yeah, I think that's the best thing to do.

I definitely would like to leave the door open to resume things after traveling, but if it doesn't happen I doubt I would be that fussed since my game is improving so much since my ex left me. She's really sweet and very smart, but with traveling and potentially university on the cards for her a lasting relationship probably isn't possible.

Well, it went perfectly

She said she understands and isn't looking for a relationship with all her future plans, but she wanted to lose her virginity with me because she feels safe and I know what I am doing and she knew I would make it comfortable for her.