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Well we did meet again and I did fuck her well, and she was very horny. After the sex she asked what this was, and I tod her that I dont know and added that I think I schould be able to be with other girls for a few weeks and then we will see. I made a remark and said that I kind of cant trust her, since she changes her mind so fast. She accepted this. So far so good...But after that she told me a pretty sad thing about her, that mad me really upset, and I kind of cried a little for her. Althou the thing she said wasnt that sad, so I wasnt that dominant and strong to say the least(Im a sensitive guy what the fuck am I supposed to do?!).

Well after that she texted a little and also called me once, and I played my cards right in those conversations. Well then it was time for the second "meeting", and told her since I broke my wrist lately I needed her help at home, and she was up for that. This time I didnt do so well(I had a bad day that day, schould have cancelled), well anyhow, the connection wasnt that good, but I did "make" her get me a good blowjob with cum in mouth:). After that I asked her how she felt between us, and she said "I dont know", "My work takes a lot of time,bla bla". I said I wanted to be more serious, but she wasnt sure.(bad for me). Well since then she has sent me a few messages, but I get the feeling she only wants the attention and knowing that Im still "there"...

What schould I do,,Im still have strong feelings for this girl. Schould I say that thing arnt working between us and that we were never made for each other, and that we schould talk no more. I feel I really need to shake her up.

Any advice would be appriciated!

Well you did this part.

But you forgot this: "When those 3 minutes are up, JUMP your ass UP! Wipe your dick on the curtains and proclaim to HER and the world. "I can never see you again, your body is so fantastic I would only want to fuck you over, and over again!"

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No sorry i did not do this part. Well done is done..Is there anyway to reedem myself?

She keeps sending me messages...

One tip bro, one tip: The more sex, the more attachment.

What type of messages?

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Messages like this:
(I'm from Sweden, some things doesnt translate to well)

"Are you uuuupppp marcus?:D"
"Does this remind you of someone?(MMS picture)" (mms picture that reminded how she is)
"Are you out?:)" (message at 01 in the night)

Those messages are then followed by a few more conversations,,,ends pretty quickly thou-

Because you do not move the situation forward.

She wants too fuck you but is waiting for you to make that happen.

Clearly by her text she is offering the chance to advance.

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Feels like she mostly wants the attention.

The last three times we have met it has always been me who initiated the meetup. Feels like she should also suggest a "date", now its always me.

Before we broke up, she also send those kinds of messages. They dont really mean anything.

Possible. exes have a way to do that.
Well, she ain't sending them to me. So they probably do mean something, since she picked you as the recipient.
I would bang her good. Schedule the meetup if you have to, fuck your pride and fuck her.
Game other chicks too so you won't get oneitis when/if she decides she has had enough of your dick instead of coming back to you begging for forgiveness for her breakuppish ways.

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"It's disrespectful not to bang them when they sleepover." (Hellhound)

She just wants some dick, let her, or don't.

Women can get horny without emotion. Crazy concept I know.

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Well she keeps sending messages. But never asks to meet.

Im thinking about doing two different scenarios:

1. Soon send a message, with the following: Wanna fuck tonight? (or something like it)

2. I think we schould stop having contact with each other, its not leading anywhere. Obviously we wernt right for each other, and I think it would be the best if we stop all contact. (or something like it)

It feels like she has me under her finger and I dont like it at all. I guess she does because she is hotter than any girl I have been close to ever.

Yeah it sucks

I can kind ôf relate to this one and i thought i would hit you up.

I came out of LTR recently, the relationship was good. But as I was distant it was her decision to break up then we got back together and then it was my decision to break up. At times I have wanted her back, i got some msgs that made me question my decision and other msgs that seemd like she just wanted my attention and to chat casually etc. I think she has totally let go now and this made me realllly want her at one point... !!!

Do yourself a favour though and use your spare time to focus on building a life of value in all those othet departments you may be lacking... i bet you can think of some?

Dont send any message like that, youre a man of value arent you? Go out and create value and dont think about her ... maybe she wil be attracted to what you creatg, but equally... Maybe not and that would be HER loss.

Dont overthink this!

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I really don't get why guys go through this mind-fuck after brake-ups.

It's always the same story. You brake up , you start missing each other , you get back together , it's all sunshine and rainbows for 2 weeks. After that , welcome back to hell.

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