so i met this girl in a club and everything went great. We chatted for a while made her laugh, found common interests, got a cheeky kiss at the end of the night and exchanged numbers. Doing so as she asked me to take her for a meal.

Anyway i text her when i got home to ask her if she got home safe? was this a mistake?

the next day we text during the day and mid day she hit me with a text " shall i leave you to it for the rest of the day until later on", later on as we was going for dinner. Firstly my response was no im free if you wanna continue chatting, was this for the best? and secondly going for a dinner just 24 hours after meeting was this a good idea or should i have made an excuse and said we will do this another time?

the night comes and we go for dinner, she wants to come back to mine so i say ok lets do it. should i have made more of a move whilst at mine as all we did was make out. Things got a bit cuddly i wasnt sure what to make of this? so i drop her home and kind of sort another date but not set in stone so to speak. the next day comes and i get the bombshell im not sure i feel the same way about you as you do about me,,,,, this shocked me as i thought it was the other way round! but on having received this text i immidiately dropped in confidence and was going through the past 48 hours trying to figure out where i went wrong??

also,,,, when texting what to refer to in a sexual manor??

People, people.. Listen up: When you close a girl forget about Pick Up. Only use Pick Up mentality when you're PICKING UP a chick(Thus the fucking name). Relationships and stuff are completely different mentalities and games altogether!

You did well in your pick up. K-closed, messaged her. Your only problem is you didn't fuck her. She was going back to yours because she was DTF. You didn't escalate enough and just made out(wtf?!). You should have tried for more even just to convey to her that you were up for some hot fucking. That's where you fucked up.

Some chicks are just DTF, they have different mentalities about it. Some don't want to be sluts and want to feel like they made you work for it(Bring me out for dinner). Others will just fuck you there and then, as in the absolute slappers.

You brought her back, made out and cuddled. Yeah, she might have been into it, definitely but she's human and humans are fickle. She went home, had time to think and realised she didn't want a relationship but thought you did so she cut you off. She did this even if she enjoyed herself simply because she doesn't want a relationship, it probably scares her at this point.

yeah nice makes sense to me

People, People Listen up... The pick up is just one aspect of becoming a man...a man that women love. The idea is to not just fake some best version of you by learning basic parlor tricks but to actually become the best version of you. Once you except this you will become one with the matrix. You no longer see thing in sections... pickup, close, FWB, LTR. You become one with yourself and your personality. You will be the same player in all situations, games, and mentalities altogether.

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My personal mantra:

"Every woman's a whore in the right situation"
"They're all selling it for something"
"She's sluttier than you think she is"