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| Lostinthecrowd | PostPosted: Sat Oct 19, 2013 2:21 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon Apr 22, 2013 1:07 am Posts: 28 | | I started dating this girl ~2 months ago, and its been long distance (~1.5 hrs) for about a month due to a move. We are not official yet but have been talking on the phone nearly every day for an hour. Usually its about a 50/50 split who initiatives the call. I noticed this past week she has started to become more distant - Sun through Tues I had to initiate the call (although we then spoke for an hour)... Wed I was expecting her to call but she didn't so I sent her a text goodnight... no response so I texted her Thursday asking what she was up to and again no response. It's Friday and I still haven't heard anything. (I realize this was a little needy on my part)
How should I handle this? I expect the response on here will be to go cold and let her come back to me, but I'm not sure if its most appropriate. She has trust issues, daddy issues, and is a little needy herself (she's the one that has wanted to talk daily more than me). Saw her last ~2 weeks ago, and we got into a small argument so I'm worried she might be hurt over that still. But, she also has 2 exams next week for school, works part time and volunteers, so maybe she's just busy. However, she usually gets back to me right away even when she is busy. I won't be able to see her for another 2 weeks
Was thinking I'd call her again Saturday but not sure if I should wait longer.
TLDR: 2 month LDR, talked daily for past few weeks, this week she has become distant and unresponsive, how to handle?
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| R.C | PostPosted: Tue Oct 22, 2013 8:26 pm | |
| Offline | | Ask a mod for a custom title |  | Joined: Thu Oct 13, 2011 1:53 pm Posts: 5428 Location: Romania | | Look man , my last real relationship was 3 years. 1.2 years or so was Long distance.
I'm telling you right here and now , long distance is NOT FUCKING WORTH IT.
Break up and find some pretty young thang that doesn't live miles away.
Specially since you've been with her 2 months.
The choice is simple. You let it go now , or she does a bit later.
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| charliethedog | PostPosted: Tue Oct 22, 2013 11:04 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Aug 14, 2013 3:54 pm Posts: 5 | | Agree with above poster....if you have been together for years and then it becomes LDR then maybe it would work with that solid foundation. But if you are just starting the relationship and it's long distance its almost impossible. Find someone else while still trying to game this girl.
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| MrBreeze | PostPosted: Tue Oct 22, 2013 11:47 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot | Joined: Fri Jul 13, 2012 12:51 am Posts: 330 Location: Denver, Co | | Fools errand for sure my friend. I wont even fuck with women on the other side of my city. One of the reason I like day gaming is because I know they live close to my geographic area. It makes my " Its pizza and Blow Job night, what time will you be here?" text seem reasonable because whats the issue you're like two minutes away. _________________ My personal mantra:
"Every woman's a whore in the right situation"
"They're all selling it for something"
"She's sluttier than you think she is"
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