So months back I went all AFC on my GF of 7 years because I lost my job, just a lot of things. She was on the verge of breaking up with me and this pushed me to be a better guy and I dove into PUA. Now she is in love with me and I am a rock star to her (thanks PUA forum you changed my life). Couple days ago I picked up her phone and saw a text from a guy. She explained to me that when she was going through stuff and that people in her life told her to meet other guys. I guess she met this guy at a get togther and he was friendly and they exchanged numbers. Eventually he asked her out and she said no, she had a bf and couldnt be talking to him. Now hes texted her again asking her out again and she told him no and she was happy and that she did not want to talk to him. She started crying about it all and was like I would never cheat on you I was just going through something and I never liked him just as a friend to talk to, untill he became forward. Well I now feel like I cant trust her I have no problem with her having guy friends its natural but I feel so hurt by this for some reason. I almoast cant move forward. Am I being stupid and should move on because she said she never did anything emotionally or sexual and, she also said I want to be with you, and Id be with that guy if I wanted to. This sucks because we have been growing so much, shes always been so loyal and trustworthy and I have become so confident and now blehh I feel dead. Just the fact of her responding to his text at all hurts me. Everyday since she sends me texts saying I love you and shes been trying to make me feel better shes constantly says Im the best bf in the world... I need advice if i keep feeling this way I am going to end it.

whats my next move freeze out, just act disintristed, or walk I dont want to reward it but I want to move on.

You're being a beta pussy.

She told you the truth, told the guy off. Unless she is explicitly saying or doing things to keep him interested, you are at fault. Cut that shit out and get on with life.

Thank you, I needed that! Im just so stuck because iv had GFs that have cheated and to even put this girl in that catagory sucks royally because I may propose to her soon. Dont want to marry a cheater....

Call the guy on her phone and laugh at him. Let him know he's friendzoned but he's welcome to try. Be a man, bro. Men dont worry about their women because they own them.

I'd say hold off on the proposal. 7 years together and she was ready to move on when shit got tough. Her friends told her to meet other guys?? Not a woman I'd be quick to wife; she'd have alot to prove. Things aren't always going to be perfect and if she is able to be influenced by others to meet guys not wife material IMO.

I'd have to disagree with some of the guys who posted here.
If she's doing all that, give her a chance.
You, yourself, said that you acted miserably and drove her away, it wasn't her fault.
You grew up, and 7 years is such a long time.

Sit alone and think of what YOU want. You, yourself, can only decide if you love her or not.