Wonder if you guys can help me...

This is an odd question but I thought I'd ask.

At the moment I'm just out to enjoy myself and get some experience, I do want a GF eventually but I'm not gonna settle for just anyone, has to be the right person.

The first girl I've seriously gamed has got really quite into me and keeps banging on about how infatuated she is and all this stuff and I have no idea why.

All I did follow the basic attraction, comfort, escalation stuff and fluff talk with her a bit over a week or so on SPAM

Now she won't leave me alone and I'm going to have to LJBF her because it's just too much.

She is a low self esteem type so I half-suspected her to get attached but I don't want every girl getting serious this quick...

How common is this kind of thing and what's the best way to avoid it?

Thanks in advance

Hal

She is doing what's called "Love-Bombing," I just wrote a blog post about it yesterday.

It is VERY rare, and it means that she has a Cluster B Personality Disorder: Borderline, Histrionic, and/or Narcissistic.

Get rid of her immediately. I dated a Cluster B for 8 months and it took me more effort than I care to remember just to put the shattered pieces of my mind back together.

That girl is poison, dump her.

Also, you're going to have to block every route of contact, because if you don't, she will email you when you block her number, Facebook you when you block her email, Snapchat you when you block her Facebook, SPAM you when you block her Snapchat, and so on and so forth.

I'm speaking from experience on this one.

Run away from girls who love-bomb, they're insane.

It's a manipulation tactic for abusive women. They butter you up with the love-bombing, then take it away later when you displease them (whether you did anything or not). It's an intense, abusive, destructive degree of Push-Pull.

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Oh thank god, nice one dude!

I'm so glad its not normal behaviour, that shit is stressful and extremely unattractive.

The last thing I want is some crazy stalking me.

I'll break off all lines of contact.

Thanks again.

Hal