I've been in a LTR for 1 year with my gf and recently I'm beginning to notice a betaization creeping in.

1) We had the first discussion ever. She was upset and I kept cool and made my point of view clear to my gf. She finally apologized for her bad behaviour, hugged me and told me she feels very bad and I said it's okay, but next time she should bring up such topics in an adult way and not by getting upset like that.
- So what do you think about the way I handled this situation?

2) I noticed a couple of times that she finished my sentence before I could finish it, in a "blabla, keep on talking" way, but most of the time I wasn't going to say the same thing like her.
- I found this pretty disrespecting, but I didn't react to it. How should I behave in such a situation?

3) Now it seems she doesn't want sex as much as I do. So I start kissing her and slowly moving to her ears and neck, and then she starts giggling, saying it tickles too much, so she can't chill. I could break these "LMR's" by just walking away and watching TV, or playing with my cell etc. Then I'll start kissing her again, this time longer while touching her face, neck,... until I broke these LMR's.
Recently she doesn't want sex at all, she said she is stressed out because of the examinations at college, so she can't relax in order to have sex.
- I know how much she loves sex, because we have good sex, even after all these LMR's I have to break.
I guess I became kinda predictable and needy?

I was reading PUA and Alpha material before that LTR and I know I became comfortable in our LTR.
So what can I do to get rid of a betaization?
Looking forward for any advices.

greetz

You guys not having sex is clear sign of an issue. The only exception is if a medical condition is involved.

Next time, try not to be so predictable, and don't go slowly with it. She's your gf damn it. Get home, grab her, slam her(don't hurt her of course) to the door, kiss her heavily, and start doing all kinds of things you should already be familiar with. The point is: Spice up the sex. If it's getting boring for her, she will seek it somewhere else.

Now back to the minor problems.

As for #1, you handled it fair enough. You called her out on her mistake, but accepted her apology and comforted her afterwards. No big problem here.

As for #2, mess with her a little.
1. When she finishes your sentence, you just say: "What I wanted to say was... /finish your sentence in an absolutely nuts way/".
2. Look at her clueless face for a few seconds with a serious face.
3. Smile.
4. "So what I really wanted to say before you cut into my sentence... /say what you wanted in the first place/"

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You should talk to a good looking female girlfriend, she is always a reason. And she had been so fond of, all of a sudden on sex, but also for a reason, because the exam, she may pressure a little big, you do not give her pressure, ask her to take exams, you then carefully finished having sex. Your girlfriend need is your understanding.

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In my opinion, on the #1, you did it great. On the #2, not so much, you should have done something like, if she was speaking when you were, shut up, let her finish and say, "You're done?" And continue with your point. Or, if better to you, raised your voice, making your tone higher than hers but without screaming and making your point.

With the sex issue, I believe you have given too much importance to it, and she has noticed. Just, act as if sex isn't a big deal, and she'll give it to you. Don't do anything for a while, and she'll start wondering why aren't you? And will want to start it for her.

Good luck dude.

With the sex thing (as I was also recently going through the same thing), the best way to fix that is to take the power away from her. At the moment, she holds the power and decides when you guys are and are not going to have sex.

Take the power away by:
1. Being forceful next time you want sex. You wear the pants in the relationship, and if you want sex you are going to get it. Take her by surprise and start pulling her clothes off. Don't give in to resistance unless she's screaming STOP to you.
2. Next time she initiates sex with you, deny her. Say "Not right now babe", then have sex with her when YOU want - later that day/night, the next morning, or the next day.