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I am in a LTR and I miss my gf. I just want to send her random text all the time but I am trying very hard to refrain from doing so since it is needy. She even told me this one, she doesnt want to be adored and worried about.
She doesn't really initiate contact with me either, so what can I do to stop myself from wanting to talk to her?
A relationship is supposed to be MUTUAL. Remember this. Both people invest, both people commit, both people initiate contact, etc. If you are not happy with the way the relationship is going, tell her, and if she changes something, compromises, then great, if not, then look to find a girl who actually fits your wants and needs in a relationship.