I've been dating this girl for 4 months, and everything has been extremely great. She's a HB9 easy, she's smart, dedicated, loyal, and yet I don't seem to be as interested in her as she is me.

She talks about she wants a real future with me, kids, getting married, live together, ect.
But, I don't feel the same. It's getting so bad, that sometimes I can't even get hard when we're about to have sex.

Anyone else experience this before? It seems like this happens to me a lot, I lose interest quick. And granted, I do think I love her. I would be sad if I lost her, but, sometimes it feels like i have to convince myself of that.

Basically she's a girl I can see myself actually being with for a very long time, and yet I'm losing interest?

We don't fight, there's nothing she does that really bothers me, and we have sex plenty. We date plenty.

So what's wrong? How can I get myself more interested in this girl?

It might be that I see her too much, we do see each other everyday, and a lot of time its for the whole day.
I just doesn't make sense most people would go crazy if they got a girl like her as hot and amazing as she is. And I feel as if I wouldn't even be sad if she broke up with me tomorrow.

If you're not excited about this girl, then maybe you shouldn't be dating her exclusively. Maybe you need more variety in your sex life to be happy? Or maybe you're just not ready to settle down yet and have anxiety over the commitment? Or maybe you just need to heighten your testosterone levels (and sex drive)? Or maybe she's just really not your type, despite the fact that she's hot?

Honestly, we can't tell you the answers to these questions. You need to figure this out on your own.

-Wolf

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Well probably you are not looking for these qualities. Why don't you keep looking for a better one?

If your young that has a lot to do with it. Do you have a lot of things you do besides hang with her?

There is nothing wrong with you. This things happen, I was in a similar situation few years ago and I spent a year and a half of my life trying to convince myself to love a "perfect girl" that I just could not connect with.
When it happened again with another HB9 I was out in a month because I knew better.

Don't worry man, this is normal, sometimes you just don't click. Don't stress about it, plenty of other high quality females around!

I'm in the same situation. But I've been monogamous for 3 years with her!

I'm gonna spice it up and do couple's swaps, swingers. Etc.

I love her, but I'm really bored of the sex and she doesn't have high sex drive like me. I do miss fucking new girls but i dont wanna lose her, I feel ya pain bro

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Pebble,

How do you bring up the swap/swinger conversation to your gf?

Just be honest with her.

She will agree with you if you need to spice the sex up. But my gf is pretty cool like that so I guess it depends on the girl. No harm in asking.

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PEB your down to see another guy with her?

Yup.

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Cool bro