alright so me and my GF havn't seen each other in a week (we're both off on vacation with the family , we text each other everyday (we're in different countries right now)- everything has been fine so far until now.
so the whole year i've been telling her about my brother's wedding which is gonna take place at the end of this year , inviting her telling her i'm excited for her to meet my family (she already presented me to HER family a month after we started going out officially - we've been together for 4 months and she has only met my brother so far).
So we're texting and I told her i'm trying on suits for his wedding, when she texts me saying "i hope i don't back out last minute because i'm shy to meet your family." i got pissed at this cause as much as I didn't want to meet her family when we started dating, I did it to make her happy. so obviously i'm thinking why the fuck shouldn't she be doing the same. I told her "i think it'd be more emberassing for me to tell my family that you were too shy to go to the wedding." then she said yes she's going and to help her choose a dress etc.. i was still kinda pissed cause i do favors for her even if i dont to, i go out of my way to do shit for her and she tells me that.. so she changed topics saying "fernanda invited me to los angeles with her in december" and i kinda one word responsed her saying "thats cool" . then she continues on to text me "my boyfriend is being a dick, i'm not gonna respond to him back" (ON ACCIDENT- SHE MEANT TO WRITE IT TO HER FRIEND!) .
after this, I sent her a thumbs up emoticon (y) and she writes me this , keep in mind i'm not responding to anything, but it shows up on her App that i'm reading it .
her : "aaaaah" (3:29)
her: "shit" (3:29)
her: "sorry" (3:37)
her: "you're not going to answer me anymore i'm seriously sorry" (3:45)
her: ":(" (3:45)
her: "of course I was going to respond to you" (3:45)
her: "if you're busy just tell me and there" (3:45)
her: "we'll talk later" (3:45)
her: "dont be mad" (3:46)
her: "seriosly
" (3:46)
her: "i'm an idiot" (3:46)
her: "aaaaah seriously" (3:54)
her: "answer me!" (3:55)
her: "of course i was going to answer you!" (3:55)
her: "oh fine, when you stop being angry let me know" (3:58)
it's currently 5:05 pm still havn't responded to her . what should I do next?? i know she really is legitametely sorry she really really loves me and i care for her and love her too but she needs to learn one way or another right? I'm honestly not even that mad I'm just so annoyed that she has to look to her friends to decide what to do in our relationship, she does shit that she deep down inside doesn't want to do (when she said she "wasnt gonna respond", i know she doesnt want to do that shit) . She's a very dependant person (looks for others on what to do) , and I believe she has low self esteem- last night I believe she even dreamed about me cheating on her and woke up telling me how much she loves me, she never wants to lose me , etc etc. ) . I don't want this relationship to fuck up i just want her to learn a lesson so she stops being so sensitive and drastic.
is it really something I should freeze her out for? should I keep on doing it? what do i tell her when I stop freezing her out?
HELP PLEASE! thank you
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