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| Kravous | PostPosted: Sun Aug 04, 2013 12:04 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Mon May 20, 2013 5:01 pm Posts: 53 Location: belgium | | 2nd time we're giving the relationship a go, the first time we broke up cause I couldn't deal with her friends & she couldn't deal with mine. It was one big pile of drama.
the chemistry we have is unreal, so we decided we didn't give a fuck about the rest. We make each other happy & that's that. With that being said we didn't tell our friends to fuck off, just that we love each other and they have to deal with it.
alright, so after the first time we broke up (we where together for 2 months, I KNOW) - 3 months of being single later, i banged another chick. She recently found out and I'm like, 'are you going to make a big deal out of this? you realise we where broken up for over 3 months right?' she was like 'K'. I didn't react, she's obviously going to make a thing about this, posting statusses on facebook 'fuck love, i prefer vodka' those type of childish attention seekers.
Y'day she texted me ' I hope you realise there is no hope left.. :'(' to wich I responded 'If for this reason you think there is no hope left, then there never was any hope, peace.'
She's a very closed & stubborn girl. I love her alot, but if she wants to mess this up for that reason, I guess she doesn't care for the relationship as much? or does she care even more by acting the way she does?
How am I handling this?
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| havegunwilltravel | PostPosted: Sun Aug 04, 2013 2:27 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Thu Aug 01, 2013 1:17 am Posts: 145 | | Sounds like you are handling the situation fine. You broke up and you tried to move you life forward by hooking up with another girl. Absolutely nothing wrong with this and thats how you are and should act. Either she accepts the fact you hooked up with someone else and gets past it or she doesn't and you guys break up again, her loss.
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| Rough Operator | PostPosted: Mon Aug 05, 2013 1:38 am | |
Joined: Mon Oct 03, 2011 12:32 am Posts: 960 Location: England | | She's being an idiot. I think she will probably come round though, if you remain calm and ride it out.
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| Jay (Majik) | PostPosted: Mon Aug 05, 2013 1:53 am | |
| Offline | | The Coach |  | Joined: Sun Jun 19, 2011 7:44 am Posts: 4170 Location: Chicago, IL | | This bitch sounds crazy man.
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| Kravous | PostPosted: Mon Aug 05, 2013 12:14 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Mon May 20, 2013 5:01 pm Posts: 53 Location: belgium | | She's gonna be here at 20:00.
How should I play this? She's mad and has no reason to be, and I'm mad because of the way she's been acting. I'm not gonna confront her about that tho, as long as she doesn't flip out tonight aswell, when I tell her how ridiculous this is and she needs to get over it, its in the past.
I'll let you guys know how it went!
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| krular | PostPosted: Mon Aug 05, 2013 1:12 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict | Joined: Mon Jan 28, 2013 4:39 pm Posts: 231 | | you have no reason to get mad bout how she acts. If she acts crazy bout it anymore or brings it up. Just look straight at her and say "Except it or move on." and leave it at that. Cause her flipping out bout it is stupid and no matter how you try to explain that yall were not together and you were free to do whatever you wanted with whoever you wanted, she will not listen to it.
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| Anon22 | PostPosted: Mon Aug 05, 2013 3:35 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Fri Jun 21, 2013 11:51 am Posts: 16 | | Problem is, if she does claim to get over it, she will likely cheat on you later on in the relationship as it will eat away at her.
She sounds like the immature type who would do this. Be wary.
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| Hunter_Foxe | PostPosted: Mon Aug 05, 2013 8:48 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Tue Sep 18, 2012 8:24 pm Posts: 2044 Location: Nottingham, UK | | Drama Queens are the worst type of girlfriends. They are however good to keep on as a fuck buddy / FWB because if you only rarely see each other, this creates the drama she is looking for.
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| Kravous | PostPosted: Tue Aug 06, 2013 10:06 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Mon May 20, 2013 5:01 pm Posts: 53 Location: belgium | | update:
We're good, still together.
Turns out the issue was that the chick I hooked up with is my bestfriend and I still see her pretty often.
I guess I understand in a way, no more sleepovers!
Thanks for being interested in my issue!
peace.
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