I found a decent girl that I can see myself dating for awhile. Maybe a year or more. So far we have been hooking up since last October and developed feelings over that course. It started getting a lot of more serious around March and here I am. The problem is, I feel like I haven't unleashed my inner slut yet. I have gone on mini rampages but not done anything worthwhile that I can look back on.

Basically what I am saying is should I indulge in satisfy this craving of wanting to explore the depths of other women (vaginas) or stay and see how fruitful this relationship can be. I like the way this girl treats me. She is so far a good girl as described by Wolfwood here, and I am enjoying the benefits...

tough decision. Any advice?

drama-free-relationships-1-screening-vt124827.html

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~ASmooth

On a sidenote: What happened to dogsoldier's post mentioned in the link? I get an error message.

I decided to give it a shot. There may be some good experience to take from it. Overall, there will be great memories to look forward to at the end of it all.

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~ASmooth

Unless you're getting married, being in a relationship doesn't mean forever. It means for now. Enjoy it. Plus, if she is a good girl, my experience is they are the best ones in bed, because they are most willing to please. This can sometimes make them horny little sluts that will allow a lot, including swinging or threesomes, etc.

I would date her, and try to learn about her kinky side while you do. You might get the best of both worlds.

Problem is that I have brought up the possibility of a threesomes. She said she wasn't interested...any tips for that?

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Most women aren't into it right away. They are programmed to be socially accepted, not dirty, skanky whores.

If you are committed to her, and you have a genuine interest, try bringing out her inner kink. Try finding out what turns her on, and the better the sex gets for her, the more she will get into it, and as a good girl, the more she will want to please you.

My ex never was into threesomes. She'd never slept with anyone but me. I started talking about her fucking a friend of mine, and it reached a point that I could make her cum while fucking her and talking dirty about her fucking my best friend in a matter of seconds. The turn on for her was that my best friend would cheat on his girl just to have his dick in her. Plus he's my buddy, so that makes it doubly wrong. It turned her on to think a guy she knows would want to fuck her that bad. Eventually with all that talk, she started asking me what I wanted, and actually said she'd consider a threesome. At one point I even told her I wanted a threesome with her sister, because they are a lot alike. She asked why, I said, it would be like fucking you, times 2.

As her man, you are free to explore her sexuality with her. If it turns out that what turns you on actually turns her OFF, then it's easier for you to know whether to remain in the relationship forever or not. But don't let one little "I'm not interested" discourage you. It's likely she doesn't have a clue what she's really into if nobody has ever helped her find out.

Good question. The old forums (MASF, rest in peace) have been going up and down and up and down. So the archive is accessible sometimes and not others.

Here's a link I found somewhere else on the net: http://dogsoldierspen.blogspot.com/2010 ... reaks.html

-Wolf

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Screening: drama-free-relationships-1-screening-vt124827.html
Bad Behavior: drama-free-relationships-3-the-soft-next-vt125554.html

^^^ Hey, Wolf,

where do you find your sources or references? That was a good read.

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~ASmooth

I've been reading community forums since 2006. I just make a point to save links and copies of posts that I think are helpful / informative.

For kicks and giggles, here's a small sample of some of my favorites:

$M post about "Owning that pussy": http://www.pua-zone.com/showthread.php? ... ning+pussy
Kwagmyre's Iron Triangle Post: http://www.fastseduction.com/cgi-bin/se ... hod=browse
Vin Di Carlo's Escalation Ladder post: http://www.fastseduction.com/cgi-bin/se ... 73&refine=
Ijjjji's seduction tips: http://www.fastseduction.com/cgi-bin/se ... 85&refine=
Blackdragon's thesis on why monogamy doesn't work (long): http://www.blackdragonsystem.com/upload ... t_work.pdf
Blackdragon on MLTR's: http://www.fastseduction.com/cgi-bin/se ... 1871591100
Tubarao's relationship rules: http://puarticles.blogspot.com/2008/01/ ... rules.html
60YOC on the provider-attraction paradox: http://www.fastseduction.com/cgi-bin/se ... hod=browse
Iammaximus on motivation (GATA!): iffy-about-one-night-stands-vt148290.html#p713135

Enjoy!

-Wolf

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Screening: drama-free-relationships-1-screening-vt124827.html
Bad Behavior: drama-free-relationships-3-the-soft-next-vt125554.html