Alright so my whole story with this girl is in this thread right here.

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Anyways She's been taking longer to reply..and treated me like shit over text..acting like she doesn't care or whatever..so I was getting fed up with it and I thought why not call her have a good talk over the phone make her laugh etc..then hang up and freeze her out for about 3 weeks or so and see if she'll miss me..to see if things change by then..and if not I'll be ready to move on since I'll be going out gaming other girls anyway..I'm 16 btw..

Anyways I just got done talking to her on the phone..and she laughed a ton we had fun talking about our day and stuff..we flirted a little..and I hung up..and called back saying "oh and the reason I asked to talk to you was to tell you that I've been testing you for the past couple of weeks to see if you were the same as all the other girls I dated" The reason I said this was because I was acting extremely afcish the pastt few weeks and I thought maybe if I tell her I was sh1t testing her it'll change her mind? whatever idk if that worked but anyways.. she says "am I?" I just said "we'll have to see" than we say good night and hang up.

So how do you guys think I should approach this I want to give it one last shot and prove to her I wont act afc anymore and I wont deal with her sh1t anymore it's either me or the other guy... by freezing her out for 3 weeks whilst I go out gaming other girls..oh and we've practically been talking to each other via sms,SPAM etc for about 6 months almost EVERY single day..so I'm sure she'll miss me within this time frame..any help is appreciated

I'm new to game

I started getting into the game back in high school. I know how you must feel but trust me u need to freeze her out of your life and try to get over her.

You have ONEITIS. Trust me iv been there and the more you try to talk to her the creepier your gona come off as. its just a cycle of failure.

I had this girl i used to like back in high school. we flirted alot and were about to start dating . Her best friend liked me too so they made a pact not to date me. This pissed me off and then i kept pushing, always fb her messages and texting her and then poof she started ignoring me and i kept trying lol.

What i learned from that is . DONT DO IT.

Being young you still havnt looked into true game and thats about being an alpha. An alpha wont chase. You did good calling her but calling her the 2nd time u came off as too needy. Your problem is you like her too much and sadly , what iv learned about situations like that is that itll never work cuz when we men like a girl too much we always fuck it up lol because we come off as needy up the butt.

my suggestion to even get her back , ignore her , start talking to alot of other girls. High school games easy , you just have to be outgoing, and you just need a routine.

my routine was that i would flirt all day at school get to know all the cute girls get their numbers. Then from what I would see how they would respond I would text them and tell them to come have a few drinks with me. Go to parties and shit but if you wana fclose get her to drink by ur selves.

if you can get her to drink with you by yourselves. thats it always go for the fclose and if rejected get as far as you can she wants you trust me girls dont drink with a guy by themselves if theyr not expecting to get fd.
well once you hook up with at least a few girls then try talkin to ur ex again.

get good pics on fb show that your a new guy and play hard to get with her maybe itll work. only thing is itll take time give it like 4 months or more and work on your game.


Recommendations
-read books on body language and body language of attraction
- Read 60 years of challenge (you need to tone it down for high school but it will teach you to have balls)

Thanks a lot K0ko, do you think I give this one more shot after 3 weeks of total no contact tho?

You should give it a lot more than three weeks you need to reinvent yourself. you need to go out there and make a name for yourself so she hears about it. Trust me shell probably end up hitting you up once she sees you do things your way.

Well you can always try I just know from personal experience its never worked for me , but ay every situation is different. Just dont come off as needy, 1 call, she doesnt reply to a text dont text back again till next day or so... etc

Thought id throw this in here. Read Matt Huston: "ex2 system" and "train your girlfriend". You can torrent it, or buy it on amazon. They really help in relationship management and understanding push/pull etc. They will certainly help either now or in the future with another girl. Good luck.

What exactly do you want? To punish her? That's what it sounds like to me. You don't call or contact her for 3 weeks while you go out gaming other girls. Way to go you childish dick.

Yo...sup man...im about your age(17) so i thought i could give you a bit of advice...but i'm not a PUA yet, either...well let's get started...

You my friend have a hard hard hard ONEITIS and believe me i know how it is, we've all been there, especially at this period. Lately i see it at many of my buddies, they are just leeched on theese particular girls. But the thing is, i know so much about girls actions on this and how they see you etc, is because many of theese girls are my friends...

You have to go on buddy, let me be straight, she doesn't want to go out with you. Probably she just doesn't to be that rude and fuck you off badly, so you're hurt, but as much longer the girls do so, the worse it is. Believe me, i've witnessed many situations like that and the thing is that girls don't know that they're doing even worse, by not being straight with you...they're being nice and shit...well because they are girls.

It's the time that got you bad this time. I myself can't stand 1-2 weeks not going out with a girl after meeting her. But you're too deep in this...get out of it, because there's almost zero chance of getting her after all this time...you should freeze her out after the first flake
i mean bro, there are girls around every corner and as much you think she is the one special, they are all pretty much the same, or even better...just remember you didn't fail, you just learned something new

So basically what i am trying to tell you is to let go! By time she's probably going to come chasing after you, as they always do...but by that time get the fuck out and chase other girls man! If she doesn't come after you, she was never worth it...

I hope this was in any help to you, haha

peace
-Street Tiger

Someone's got rice krispies stuck in their vagina.
Will do man Thanks Sup dude thanks for the advice bro..I'm already moving on..I just woke up one morning and said Fuck it. I had very little feelings left for her..I haven't been talking to her for a couple of days now and she's blowing up my phone and I just continue to ignore her ass while I'm out gaming..thanks for the advice guys